Toddler Naps?

@Mamaof2 (574)
Canada
March 6, 2007 12:46pm CST
Does your toddler lay down in the afternoon for you with out a fight? My son will get into his bed and lay there and by the time he falls asleep it is almost to late and he needs to be woken up. He doesn't fight or cry, it just takes him awhile to fall asleep. I have tried not giving him a nap thinking that he maybe didn't need one...but that back fires and he is cranky and does not sleep at all thro the night. Is an hour nap better than none at all? Anyone have any suggestions?
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@emeraldisle (13139)
• United States
6 Mar 07
He might only need an hour nap. Some kids only need that amount. Each child is different. I helped to raise my niece and we couldn't let her have a nap. If she had one she'd be up till 2 or 3 in the morning and she'd be very cranky and crabby the whole time. If she didn't nap we could usually get her into bed around 11. We had a really hard time when she was in pre-k because they wanted everyone to take a nap and we'd have a heck of time getting her to bed at night. Thing was she'd get up as soon as the sun was up no matter what time she went to bed. So it was rough on us. Some kids need naps, some don't. Some just need a 30 minute one while others need 2 hours. Go by your child. If he lays quietly and then dozes for an hour and he's fine in the evening then don't worry. He's probably getting the sleep he needs.
@Mamaof2 (574)
• Canada
9 Mar 07
Thats the problem. My son does need a nap still...everyone in the house pays if he doesn't have one..lol I am just finding that he takes so long to fall asleep. I did try something new tho..that seems to be working. Instead of letting him wake up on his own (which is normally around 8am) I have been waking him up at 7am. I am finding that getting up even that hour earlier makes him that much more tired and he goes down for a nap that much easier! He would sleep 3.5 hours in the afternoon if I let him...lol So it isn't a question about not being tired...I just think that he has a hard time settling. Thanks for the reply! Take care. :-)
@cjthedog64 (1552)
• United States
11 Apr 07
DS is 16 months. I can usually tell when he needs a nap by his behavior. We'll change his diaper and read a couple stories. He doesn't like to leave his books, but I'll put him in the crib and leave him. I listen on the monitor and he'll usually cry a little or just play and talk a little before he falls asleep. Sometimes he just plays quietly on his own for an hour or two, and I'll go get him. It's like he just needed a break to be on his own and he's fine. He's pretty easy going though, so I don't know if that'll help you any. Good luck!
@Mamaof2 (574)
• Canada
12 Apr 07
Yes, i do think that sometimes they just need some time to wined down! I do just put my son in his bed and if he decides he isnt napping....I will leave him in there for awhile as well. Even just a little quiet time seems to help after. Thanks a bunch :-)
@kagandahan (1327)
• Philippines
8 Mar 07
my son always sleeps during the afternoon.give him activites during morning,let him play and do activer stuff so that he would be so wasted he woulds easily doze off.an hour nap is enough,that is why we call it nap,a short sleep.when you want him to sleep ,dont give him chocolate or anything sweet,this will only make him more wide awake.
@Mamaof2 (574)
• Canada
9 Mar 07
lol..I have learned there are certian things to avoid before trying to get your child to nap...:) Chocolate is a big one for him. Just wires him up like you wouldn't believe. I did some adjusting with the times he gets up in the morn and what time he lays down...and he seems to be settling down a lot better at nap time. Thanks for your response :-)
@Gemmygirl1 (2867)
• Australia
1 Apr 07
My daughter is 10 months old, she has a nap in the morning after breakfast but it's usually only 30 - 45 minutes, then later she has another nap - 3pm or so, for about 1 - 1 1/2 hours then she's in bed by 8:30pm & up around 7am. I guess you'll know if they're tired :) She does occasionally fight me for naps but other times she'll lay down on her sofa bed & fall asleep on her own. An hour nap is definitely better than nothing at all!
@Mamaof2 (574)
• Canada
2 Apr 07
My son used to sleep like that until he turned 1 yr..lol. Nap in the morn at around 10...another at 2 or so...then to bed between 8-9pm. It was just lovely! i do agree, an hour is better then nothing...it does make a world of difference :-)
• Singapore
23 Mar 07
My son of 3 yrs old take a nap almost every afternoon for 2 hrs. He will go and sleep on his own only if he is too tired. Otherwise, will need me to accompany him till he fall asleep. Of course there are times when he is over-stimulated and not take his nap. Then he will sleep early unless, there are toys to keep him awake. Not sure when will kids stop taking naps?
@Mamaof2 (574)
• Canada
30 Mar 07
Ya, its funny. My son needs the nap...I know he does and even tho it is hard to get him to sleep sometimes....he sleeps at least two hours and it is hard to get him up in the afternoon. I wonder if he is just over stimulated, making it hard for him to settle. I dont know. Some days are great, some are harder than others...but I would like to continue pushing the naps for a bit longer as he is only little..and I have a crazy night if he doesnt sleep.