Collect and collect then select

United States
March 6, 2007 10:42pm CST
Do you believe in that saying? Should a man or a woman be going out with several people at the same time and from there see which one is the best match for him/her? Is this the best thing to do? Or doing this will cause us to hurt people's feelings? Like in the process of going out with guys they tend to develop feelings for you, we can say that it is a getting to know you stage, but then at the end you will choose one over another. Is it the right thing to do?
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• Philippines
8 Mar 07
Big no no for me...love isn't a game. It may may hurt someone's feelings
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• United States
9 Mar 07
What if it is like one is not really committed to anyone, someone who's single, is it wrong to see different people then choose who's the best? And how do you go over that without hurting anyone's feelings..
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@rsa101 (24236)
• Philippines
7 Mar 07
I guess if your young and still trying to learn the hoops and loops of love that may be practicable since you'll discover a lot of personalities along the way. You'll be able to really choose who's the best person you can select. But, I guess that should be a phase that would fade and should not become a habit as you grow and mature. Because, eventually you'll end up to one and hopefuly by the time you're serious with it you have chosen the best of all of them that got away.
@decimus785 (1419)
• Aruba
7 Mar 07
it's very risky ,it may confuse your feelings and you may end up chosing the wrong person,i think it's not the right thing to do.You wouldnt know what's best for you
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