dubai

Philippines
March 7, 2007 12:46am CST
my boyfriend is in dubai for work just this january. we we're planning to get married next year. is't appropriate to say I DO but after how many mos. you'll be leaving apart because he have to leave for work?! i know it's up to me to make decissions but i can't decide alone, i can't ask my parents nor friends about these matter coz it's kind a shame.
3 responses
@kool78 (490)
• India
7 Mar 07
What is the problem if you are planing to get married. I didn't understand u said you are planning to get married and you are asking when should i say i do. Are you first off all sure you want to get married to him. If you think falling in love is shame then thats your perception. If he really loves you he will get back to you but we really do not understand whats there in your mind. If you are more elaborative and clearer maybe someone can really help you out here!
@sweetsue (758)
• Philippines
7 Mar 07
It depends largely on you. I believe you don't have to seek any advice from friends or relatives if it is appropriate that you submit your "I do" knowing he has gone to dubai for work. If you love him very much and very willing to have him as your future husband, then I guess, go on tell him that you would really want to marry him in few months time (after a year). Trust your love with each other.In the first place, distance won't be a hindrance if the two people faithfully love each other. Goodluck!
• India
7 Mar 07
so it is fianl decision to u so taking the decision based on future if u r taken the correct decxision r not so u have to discuss with ur bf and take the correct decision so take a decision very close to u donot be shy.