I need suggestion

India
March 7, 2007 9:33am CST
Dear pals,I am with my girlfriend for about 2 years. But recently, I have noticed that she is trying to dominate me in every issues. I have protested against this a number of times. But then she really got upset and sad. This had resulted in loss of my mental peace. I love her very much,can't leave her, yet can not adjust her aggressive nature. What can i do now in this situation?
3 responses
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
8 Mar 07
oh how bad... but I guess the best thing that you can do is talk to her... and tell her how you feel... do not protest...talk to her nicely... tell her how you feel... Sometimes, girls are really sensitive and dominant... but we also have a large capacity to love and understand the man we love. so I guess if you would talk to her and explain what you feel... she will understand... she will do it not because you protest... or demand her... or tell her that you're sick and tired of her...or you'll leave her...or slowly you feel dont love her... Im telling you... shre'll do it because of a simple reason... SHE LOVES YOU and wants you to be happy.
• India
8 Mar 07
Thanks buddy for your suggestion
@neenasatine (2841)
• Philippines
7 Mar 07
Since i'm a girl, i think i can understand her more. You KNOW girls are too sensitive and i think you need to talk to her IN A NICE WAY not to protest.Girls sometimes think that they are too much dominated by boys that's why she's trying dominate you without realizing that she's really dominating you now. Pls. explain it to her in a nice way. First of all if you have the guts please say sorry to her. She may not able to talk to you right now, because she's thinking that your dominating her. Just be humble enough. AND EXPLAIN WHAT'S IN YOUR MIND TRULY and make sure that you're very sincere to her... anyway i'm just giving you some suggestions, it's up to you if you will follow my advice...
• Romania
7 Mar 07
the only thing that you have to do is not showing her how much you love her , show her some indiference , and she will be at your legs own experience :D