Is it hard to be happy?

Philippines
March 7, 2007 5:24pm CST
Do you know why it's so hard to be happy? it's because we refuse to let go of the things that makes us sad. what do you think? you think it's right?
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@mona123 (911)
• United States
7 Mar 07
Its difficult to be happy for human as we never become satisfy what we have ... we always want more and more in life.
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@spr1967 (208)
7 Mar 07
Its not hard to be happy most of the time. Even when your sad you can put a brave face on.If you mop around being miserable and unhappy then i think you will eventually turn into someone who no body wants to be around as you will bring them down
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• United States
8 Mar 07
I agree, a smile even when you really don't feel like it, sometimes will lift your spirits, and bring a smile to others....no one likes to be around someone you is down all the time, or complains about everything and everyone.
@Connie1013 (1098)
• United States
7 Mar 07
You might be right. I have trouble letting go of the past. It effects everything I do and say. I keep trying though. I just can't figure out a way how.
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• United States
8 Mar 07
Yes, this is true. When somethings happens, like hurt feelings, we allow bitterness to set in our heart. Not a first, at first we are hurt, that hurt builds. Then we get offened, offense against others builds into bitterness, and we refuse to forgive. Unforgiveness in our hearts is something God says is wrong. Forgiveness isn't always an easy thing to give but if we want peace inside, we must. This doesn't mean we have to have coffee with those who have hurt us, but it release their hold on us...so we can move on an be happy regardless of what they are doing, or saying....
• Philippines
29 May 07
It isn't so hard to be happy. Always look at the brighter side of things. Be optimistic.Don't dwell on life's imperfections. Happiness is a choice,so if you want to be happy,BE HAPPY.
@jb_vete (323)
• Philippines
29 May 07
You're right doreentduran. Maybe because that things that make us sad are valuable to us. And letting go would be very hard. A friend once sent a txt message to me saying "strive to be happy, it is not just a feeling,it's a choice".
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