Do You Kiss on the First Date?
By heartuvgold
@heartuvgold (493)
United States
5 responses
@La_Bella_Vita (598)
• United States
17 Mar 07
I don't decide beforehand because that can ruin things. You have to let the mood and the natural course dictate what happens. You can't lock it up before the date. I mean think about it. Isn't a date just a chess match of possibilities. I mean, the reason why a sports match is called a contest is because it is a contest to see who wins. Like Pro wrestling, which is pre-determined, there is no contest because the outcome is pre-determined. If you are going to decide that nothing is going to happen then it is not a date, therefore no contest, and therefore just a waste of time.
@heartuvgold (493)
• United States
18 Mar 07
I agree with you.
A kiss, a touch or whatever happens, if you're consenting
adults and you both agree to it, it's ok.
But for me if they try to push me into anything or make me feel uncomfortable, I ask them to take me home and that's the end of it.
@TrayBlaylock (630)
• United States
14 Dec 08
Kissing is a very intimate thing. You have to truly borderline like someone to kiss them. So kissing on a first date is acceptable to me as long as both people are feeling the date the entire time. Otherwise, kissing seems pointless.
@ezdollarincome (217)
• Philippines
25 May 07
Yes I do like to kiss on my first date. But I think if you really love or respected someone then do it on your first date. It is really all up to you and it depends on the situation too.
@lextoper (573)
• Philippines
26 May 07
It's depends on the personality and attitude of the person. If he is an aggressive type, he will make a way to turn the first date into a "bed date". well, if i were to say, i will definitely ask for a kiss... its up to her if she would allow it and the better, a full base...lol...
