Help. My Ex-Bf keep on harrassing me.
By cuteelhen
@cuteelhen (14)
Philippines
March 8, 2007 1:51pm CST
I was in a relationship right now.
I dunno if this is harrassment or I am just guity.
There you go..
We've been bf-gf for almost 2 years when i decided to end up our relationship. The reason, I don't know maybe I am just too busy at work and start to like someone in our office much better than him. He was still studying then that's why there were changes in our schedules and we often see each other. He refused to let me go and try to please me. But, I still decided to dump him.
After 3 months I went to another relationship,this time with a much matured and better man. My ex-bf then keeps on texting me nasty things but I don't even care replyin on his text messages. Until, one time he message me that maybe he'll stay away from me and start a new life. I was very happy he get back his life again and realize I was not meant for him.
This year, he message me again. Just like old friends, simple hi and hello. Then, few text became more often and much often everyday. He message me always that cause arguements between me and my boyfriend. I told him to stop texting me because of my situation. He started to text me again nasty things. He says he knew my bf's number. He wants me to see him so we could talk things over. He says he knew that I still love him and that I was just confused. He says that his getting married and he wants me to stop his wedding by marrying him.
The truth when I found out that his getting married it was bit hurt.. now I'm so confused. Do I still love him? Or he is just harrassing me coz he wants me back? or am I just plain guilty because I dumped him and replaced him a new one?
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5 responses
@carolmil123 (115)
• United States
8 Mar 07
The jerk is not getting married. He is just saying anything he can to try to get you back. You must get a new cell phone with a new number. If necessary, change it every month. He is trying to control you. If you are happy with the new man, then pursue that new relationship. You have to already know he is a liar, and probably other bad things about him, that is why you broke off. Do not let him back into your life is my advice to you.
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@aprilten (1966)
• Philippines
9 Mar 07
they're right, change your number. if it's a postpaid plan request the network to change your number, if it's prepaid then just buy a new one. i don't believe that he's getting married. he's just trying to get to you. don't feel guilty that you dumped him. it's better that way than having two boyfriends at the same time.
as for your feelings, of course, it's not that easy to lose that feeling you had for him for the last two years. but, i don't think it's still the same. you're just getting confused because he is confusing you.
so the best way to avoid him, for now, is to get a new number. let's just hope and pray that he stop this nonsense he's doing.
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• Nigeria
21 Aug 13
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@lokn4sure (63)
• United States
14 Mar 07
He is playing with your mind, follow your heart and not your mind...
@Chicks28 (3)
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
I agree with all of them. Change your cellphone number and move on. besides his just block mailing you. That guy doesn't deserve to be love. he is self centered. he doesn't want you to be happy. Good luck friend, hope you can fix things up.
