good personalities are rare to find
By naidugopal
@naidugopal (941)
India
July 11, 2006 12:08am CST
Any bdoy here, have any idea on this.... who is very honest and friendly person, who is away from internal and external tensions and freindly with all the others and give preference to character and not to money. Is there any body knows about this kind of characters around you, may be it is very rare.But the answer is hiding in your heart. For these type of questions the answer is hiding in themselves, but they won't think about themselves and they just try to think out the others, their mind just search the person who has these good qualities and it forgets himself. Perhaps he will be nice person with finest qualities. isn't right.................
5 responses
@ZIGGYLANDER (245)
• Australia
11 Aug 06
hmmm... im abit of an individual there....
Im to nice and well.... hmmm... lets just say what your talking about is rare and I relate to it allot.
Everyone is mostly out for themselves. Not realising a good warm feeling you can get from making another person smile.
@QnAQueen (555)
• United States
11 Jul 06
personally, i believe there is good in every person, it just may not be expressed or shown in ways that one quite understands. you have to look for the good in every person.
also, i don't think anyone can be human if they do not have internal and/or external tensions. everyone has problems, it's part of being human...some problems are just smaller or less earth-shaking than others. no one is perfect.
@MINNIEMEE (68)
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11 Jul 06
hellooooo..... dont think we ever really know someone 100 percent! but only can go by my experience in life, and true and genuine people will be friends with you through out your life. Think you also feel a certain kind of bond with these people, but i never judge the book by the cover because some times on the rare occasion that person has a arua full of experiences that can help u in life. every one plays a part in ur life for a reason weather just passing by or with you throughout. dont know if this helps you in anyway but just though i would say........... have a nice night
@thinley (2)
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11 Jul 06
Well! First of all do not judge the book by its cover. The world today, it is very difficult to judge and define a person. There will be a good person and a bad person BUT nobody is perfect in their heart. Infact, each and every individual is concern about his/her life. Well! Who cares about others life? Feeling pitty for others is useless until unless he does in pratical way.
Ofcourse there might be somebody or anybody who really cares about the life of a third person.. but it is very very difficult to find it.
In day to day life, each and everyone talks that you must be good at heart for others but in real life it is just an 'illusion' that will never be refelected.
Therefore, it is very important to know yourself first and then find yourself trust in the third person... However, i guess, it will be very difficult to judge the character of that person until unless you dig his/her entire life sketch.
