I can't help it: He's just cute in pink!
By Leca
@lecanis (16647)
Murfreesboro, Tennessee
March 8, 2007 8:54pm CST
The local Wal-Mart had a very good deal on blanket sleepers recently, because their schedule for seasons is based on a nationwide one and isn't realistic for the weather of our region. So we were searching for some in a size that would fit my son, and we looked all over the "boy's" side of the display without finding any. Ever pragmatic, a wonderfully helpful associate walked around to the other side of the display, pulled out a package of sleepers, and handed them to me.
And my beautiful little boy is just adorable in his pink sleepers! The color just works with his complexion or something, but it's just the cutest thing ever! Now I'm getting picked on for dressing him like a girl, but I just can't resist because it's so cute! It's not like the sleepers have ruffles or are even cut differently from the boy version: the only difference whatsoever is in the color.
Would you dress a nine-month old baby in colors not typical for his/her gender? Why or why not?
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17 responses
@serialmommy (639)
• United States
9 Mar 07
I have dressed all of my girls in "boy" clothes. Plaid shirts and ball caps and blue this and blue that. However, I've never dressed my boys in girls anything. I have very pretty children, boys and girls both look very much alike. For my now 8 year old son, his hair was never cut for the first almost 3 years of his life. My ex didn't want it cut, and my darling son had the most beautiful girly hair. He would be dressed in dark green sweatsuits with soccer balls on them and a burgundy plaid winter coat and I would still hear "oh what a pretty little girl" so I would never dress him in even remotely a girl color. For my youngest son, while his father is rather open minded, I think he would still have a problem if I put him in pink jammies.
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
10 Mar 07
Thanks for your reply!
I think with little kids no matter what you dress them in sometimes people get confused on gender. There just isn't really much to tell them apart by. Some customers had a very cute little kid in the bank yesterday, and I was talking to them and oohing and aahing. I was very careful not to say "girl" or "boy" because I didn't know, and I was hoping they would say something that let it slip, but they didn't. =p
@cjthedog64 (1552)
• United States
9 Mar 07
I don't think my son has worn anything pink, but he also doesn't have much hair, and could easily be mistaken for a girl. He does love duckies though, and I found a pair of footie pajamas with ducks all over them. He loved them, so we got them. They rang up on the receipt as being girls. I looked at them, and the only difference between that and one we got with tools on it, is there's a tiny lacing at the edge of the neck. My DH was a little taken aback at first, but when he saw how much DS likes them, he was fine with it.
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@moonmagick (1458)
• United States
9 Mar 07
I probably would at least at home, but my husband has a fit when I put him in yellow. So I cant imagine what he would say if he came home and he was dressed in pink. I love the blanket sleepers, especially this time of year, and I dont blame you for getting them, even if you had to get them in pink. They are great. I mean if you look in the mens section, there are plenty of dress shirts and polos in pinks and purples, why should babies be any different. :)
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
9 Mar 07
You make a very good point. Adult men can wear such colors if they want, it's just that specific ones choose not to. =p
Blanket sleepers are so nice. It gets very cold where I live, and while he's big enough he won't likely smother with blankets, he doesn't keep them on him all that well either.
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@judyt00 (3496)
• Canada
9 Mar 07
What does it matter, if it is at home. I don't think I'd take a boy that age out in public in pink, but that's just me. My son hated clothing on his legs of any kind when he was a baby, soI dressed him in little girl's nighties at bed time and they are always frilly. And my youngest looked so gorgeous in blue that she never had any pink until she was walking.
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
9 Mar 07
Not to mention how convenient gowns are for diaper changes! I love those things when he was tiny and still waking up in the night so I had to change him. Now he sleeps through the night, so it's not really as big an issue for us, plus it's way too cold here not to have him in something heavy.
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@prttynpnkw83 (444)
• United States
9 Mar 07
i don't see why not but you might what to try putting something of a smart alleck reply on the sleeper lol like Yes I am a boy lol that would be sooo funny
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@sandypadi (68)
•
9 Mar 07
No, I don't prefer to dress my daughter in colrs not typical for her gender. Because she may feel embarssed when she grows uo and sees the pitures that we have taken now. may be for our happiness we can dress them like that once in a while but not always. That is what I feel.
@finlander60 (1804)
• United States
9 Mar 07
While I may not be in Yoopercountry right now, I will still answer your question. In Kansas, where I am right now, real MEN DO WEAR PINK, and they have their own bumper sticker that says so. This reminds me of that famous song by Johnny Cash called "A Boy Named Sue." I would be VERY CAREFUL, though. He may just grow up and Whup some Booty, later. Does anyone else have a comment?
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@TheGreatWhiteBuffalo (4822)
• United States
9 Mar 07
Gender and Color,
How our world is so blind to Love, and who made up these rules?
I wrote once that I'm the exception to all the rules, and it is because I believe uniquely, that the superstitions of society and our rules need to change.
We've been held captive to false beliefs, for some people yellow works very well for others yellow is not a color of compliment. Being honest and saying so should not be a crime.
Sometimes a cut is wrong, and sometimes a decision is wrong.
But knowing you're right even when others think you are wrong takes a strong sense of character, and this is a great trait.
Take your stand and with Love, share your Love, I'm certain that your joy in Loving your child will also bleed over and your sharing your love with your husband and child expressed as a personal color choice that really goes well with the child's complexion.
Caution, if your husband is really against the color pink I guess you should back off and work together with him and his preconception. Make a mental note of how well the color pink goes with the skin color of your child. Imagine your husband dressed in pink would that look just as cute?
In the end your personal love and love of a particular color spectrum is a beautiful thing.
This could be part of your personal make up, and I'm sure that pink is a good color for you.
This could be a very personal walk.
This could be a very lovely walk.
You know your personal love.
Keeping warm is color blind...
In the end you first keep your family safe.
Good Luck
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
10 Mar 07
What an interesting post!
You know, thinking of my personal relationship with the color pink, it hasn't been all that good. I was the little girl who wanted blue, green, brown... anything but pink. It's only over the last couple of years that I have come to like pink. Perhaps it's part of my growing up: I always rebelled very much against gender stereotypes, but in doing so I pushed myself to the other extreme. In truth, I am both masculine and feminine, and I'm learning to accept both sides rather than just the masculine.
My husband isn't really against the color pink. He is a little weirded out by "cross-dressing", but that doesn't extend to colors, just dresses. In fact, he often wears more colors like lighter purples, yellows, and oranges, which sometimes get him teased by his coworkers.
Thanks for giving me a chance to think further into this issue with your response. And truly the reason I continue to dress my child in pink is that he looks good in it, and it makes him happy. As soon as he's in his pink sleeper he starts patting it and smiling. =p
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
10 Mar 07
Thanks for your response!
He does so love those pink sleepers. I think it's just because it's a "new" color for him, but he gets so excited when I put them on. I'm certainly not going to take them away just because other people think it's strange.
@CraftyCorner (5600)
• United States
9 Mar 07
ah poo! if he looks cute, dress him as you see fit! it's cool to dress in pink if your a guy now. whoever is just being a fashion stuck in the mud.
here's the skinny in the news on the men in pink.
http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2005/04/27/earlyshow/living/beauty/main691184.shtml
@retardedrugrat (4790)
• Canada
9 Mar 07
Honestly, what does it matter?
It's not like anyone else is going to see him, and I'm sure you dress him in typical "boy" outfits when you go out.
I think a lot of people have too many hang ups about blue being a boys color, and pink being a girls color. I remember dressing my youngest son in an adorable peach color sleeper when he was born.
Mom thought he looked ridiculous, but I said, what does it matter? He's a tiny baby, it's not like he's going to develop a complex when he's older if I tell him I dressed him in a peach sleeper as a newborn!
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
10 Mar 07
Thanks for your response!
Yes, I do dress him in typical boy outfits when we go out, so it's not like he's dressed like a girl all the time. And we do have some boy-color sleepers, it's just that they were on sale this time and we could always use more. I'd rather not do the laundry every five minutes. =p
@Ravian (51)
• Pakistan
9 Mar 07
yah pink colour not so bad . i willnot mind if i have to wer it . but we i living in this world has made some customs or boons which stops us to do the things we want in life i think go on that pink sleep over will look great to ur son
@Gabrielle1609 (278)
• Singapore
9 Mar 07
colours are something to have similar objects with variety... if you think pink looks nice on your son, by all means, dress him in pink... my baby girl wears blue sometimes too..
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@Clairec23 (136)
• Ireland
10 Mar 07
It's not like the baby is going to know the difference so why not, saying that, I'm sure my son's Dad would have something to say if he saw him in pink so it's a good thing I'm the boss lol Seriously though, I think it doesn't matter too much although I probably wouldn't go out of my way to buy pink for a boy, saying that I wouldn't mind getting blue for a girl, I don't know why...
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
10 Mar 07
That's a good point, my son isn't old enough to know yet that pink is considered a girl color. And he loves wearing it, possibly just because it's a color he hasn't had before. He gets so excited when I'm putting it on him. I can think of a lot of people in my family that would be upset by it, but we don't talk to those people. lol
That's a very good point. Getting colors that are considered "girl colors" for boys is far less accepted that getting "boy colors" for girls. I wonder why that is!
@mfpsassy (2827)
• United States
24 Mar 07
I thought they called pink "salmon" when males wear it? I'd rather him wear pink than a fish. lolol Sorry I couldn't resist I knew a guy that use to wear pink shirts he always said they were salmon. I checked a tag at a store one day he was right they called it salmon.
If that is all that was left at least he is warm
@princeworthy (1909)
• United States
24 Mar 07
I would! I don't have a problem dressing a girl in blue. So I wouldn't have a problem dressing a boy in blue. I think it is ridiculous that people make such a big fuss about dressing boys in pink. Give me a break like it really makes a difference, they are just clothes!















