Is having kids really a stress or joy?

Singapore
March 8, 2007 11:11pm CST
What is your opinion on having kids?Do u like kids?I myself have a daughter and think sometime she such a burden to me but then sometimes she my angels.What do u think???
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@ela2pso (364)
• Philippines
9 Mar 07
i think kids are joy.... perhaps they are just a urden if we cant control and understand them. psychologist explain a lot to me when i was in first year collge and ive been practicing those now in my 2 years old nephew.... i think it'll be much better if u'll try to understand the reasons of why she behaves that way... love and understand her... that will result to a better communication and clear view of having a daughter for u... theres more to life in being a mother with your daughhter. someday, u will be surprise. dont lose hope and just love her. respect in both of u is very important GUDLUCK 'bubblepad'
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• Singapore
9 Mar 07
Thanks for the advice.What did the psychologist told you?Can i have some of his/her advice?
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@mjsdls (1840)
• United States
9 Mar 07
Oh I think my son is such a blessing. We have our querrels and disagreements but when all is said and done we have each other. I know he loves me no matter how angry I get with him. And he knows I'm always here for him. It is all worth it when your child comes up to you and says he or she loves you and gives you a big hug, with no strings attached. He is my blessing from God.
• Singapore
9 Mar 07
Ya i do agree with u she sometimes did something which for us is funny.Me n my wife love her.I guess that's the way it goes.
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@coffeeshot (3783)
• Australia
9 Mar 07
You should never think of your child as a burden! Sure, it may get difficult sometimes but they can't help being kids! It was your decision to bring your child into the world so you have a responsibility to nourish, look after, teach and love her. I can not wait to have a child and I know when he/she comes along he/she will be the single most important thing to me in the world.
• Singapore
9 Mar 07
From the way u respond i guess u like children a lot.Good for u.Anyway i feel happy with my daughter even though she sometimes pest me a lot.Well life is like a cycle.Hope u have a child soon.God bless you!!
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• Singapore
9 Mar 07
No comment... :D Depend on you!!!