if you love somebody let her free

China
March 9, 2007 5:06am CST
if you love somebody let her free.if she comes back to you,she is yours,if she doesn't she never was. in a loving relationship,people need their own space.if we want to learn to love,we must first to forgive and let go of past hurts and grievance.love means letting go of our fears,prejudices,egos and conditions. if you want your lover to be free then you love in a healthy way.if you want her non free then it is a sick way of loving which will result in dying pretty soon.
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16 responses
• China
5 Apr 07
I have a good friend who we cognize about 10years. i like her when i met her first. In other words: i fall in love at first sight.meanwhile we are the best friend in life, we often have tea and coffe together,communicate some secrets each other.One day, we went for a walk in my location park, she ask me when you hunt a girlfriend. i answer her direct and told her after two years,because of i think the business is first now, after all we are young(23years old).... some days past, she told me a boy was chasing her,she has not amativeness in University. i suggested her accept that bay to enjoy your firt love... And now i know that boy is also our classmate. my god.......i am so sad and can't be say to her i love her so long. sometimes, she would appoint me to walk. i refuse her due to i miss her very much. if i met her i can't suffer her boyfriend.... From now, we have a long time not communicate each other.. i miss her... What can i do for her????
• China
5 Apr 07
love & business can run together. so, don't do the thing which will regret you in future. go in for her, may be she is missing you right now.
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• China
5 Apr 07
But now.she like her BF much... i can't catch in this time. I an waiting for her when they are separation, at that time. i am sure i must express my mind to her, i really do not miss her again but i do not know whether i have change to express... Waiting~~~
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• China
2 Apr 07
You are right! Loving somebody is the most beautiful thing in the world!If I love someone ,I will give him enough more space where he can develop his interest.I don't want to force him to accept my love,beacause my love is free!
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• China
3 Apr 07
it is a pity we have no chance to meet and to be friends.if it is,i will run after you.u are so kind and understandable.
• China
7 Apr 07
Yeah, I agree. If I love someone, I also give him enough space to do what he want. I don't like force some to do what he/she doesn't like. But now the question is I can't find the one I love. hehe
@iamjzhao (15)
• China
5 Apr 07
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• China
23 Aug 07
Love is too difficult for me to understand. but i am sure that love in life is not important. I always think that love only belongs to rich people. I want to earn money to support my family. so i always say no to love and boys who pursue me. I really have no time to think about love. It is very sad for me.
• China
15 Mar 07
You are right!! If you have a friend,you must give him or her some space.Then you have a chance to get on well with him.
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• China
15 Mar 07
thank you for your view.there is a chinese proverb said that the melon picked down when it hasn't been ripe is not sweet.so it is necissary to let her go if her heart has gone.
• China
16 Mar 07
??????! haha, let's support ,help each other.
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• China
19 Mar 07
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• China
19 Apr 07
?!????????????????,??~ Let us learn to love others.
@meteor (22)
• Chengdu, China
24 Mar 07
i agree with you,however it is really hard to do like so.the love is a little selfish except for the love of the morther.
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• China
27 Mar 07
thanks for your responding.maybe you are right.but we should a good heart to think about it!
@kelly60 (4547)
• United States
12 Mar 07
Relationships - Jealousy and lack of trust are terrible things. They have destroyed many relationships.
That is so true. No matter whether man or woman clinging too tightly to the one you love may actually cause you to lose them forever. Jealousy and lack of trust are terrible things. They have destroyed many relationships.
@zark2000 (20)
• China
13 Mar 07
to give up is anguished,it's not just leave,it's all the lives all the dreams you've been keeping in heart,suddenly they all broke up,falls apart to pieces.It's just a reality that you have to accept,or you collapse.What it should happend just happended and never change. never beg for a return of he or she.that just make you more like a clown. maybe the most important thing in a life is to learn how to forget.
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• China
19 Jul 07
i love a girl deeply.always the case that i dare not to express my mind to her,because i would rather she can feel my love ,that's enough.
• China
24 Jul 07
yes,i love a boy ,he is a excellent student with clean face and always-smiling eyes,while l am missing him ,another two girl love him at the same time:my classmate and my freind .i knowe him and also myself ,there are many reasons to make us seperate in two diffirent and long-disdanced cities.so i never speak out my tual feeling in spite i love him so much .let this deeply love sank into the deepest heart ocean ,give some space beteen this beautful memory.
• China
23 Aug 07
Love is hard to handle for me!
• China
23 Aug 07
why i can not add my response?
• China
27 Aug 07
i try to find out that where and whatis the love , but it is very dificultly to get can u tell me what is the really pure love
8 Nov 07
yes.that is right.if you love someone you should give her freedom,
• China
10 Nov 07
When I was young, I met a girl, I really loved her, but I did not tell her. Is it let her free? When the high school finished, I saw she walking with a man accomanied. I laughed at myself, "yes, you really let her free."
• China
10 Apr 07
Some circumstances are just so complicated to handle... Love is a mysterious thing,u can never thought it through... So what I believe in is just let it develop itself naturally... and the same time what I need to do is to follow my instinct and be true to myself~ that seems enough~
• China
11 Jun 07
YES! I very agree with your point! I have a boyfrend and we are classmates in senior hight school,we give free place for eachother , we quarrel a fat lot,and I think it is very good for eachother!