Which is the best way to confess your feelings??
By catch_me
@catch_me (930)
India
March 9, 2007 10:08am CST
I've been wondering... Which is the best method to confess your feelings while at the same time, being sincere and true about it?
Currently, I could think of ways such as: face to face, telephone call, sms, emails, msn...
Several factors have to be taken into consideration like the amount of courage needed and the comfort that you have with that particular special person.
In my opinion, face to face takes the most courage and it's the most sincere. It really shows that you are true about it and not joking around. However, it could get a little awkward if that person reject you and you don't know how to react to it.
Every and each way has its pros and cons...
I guess I'm the type who is more comfortable with the use of sms to convey my message although it's not that sincere. It's more comfortable and not that intimidating to me. It also give that person to ponder and time to reply to you.
Different people have different ways of confessing their feelings. It just depends on how you go about it and getting your message across and understand.
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28 responses
@koverman32 (154)
• United States
9 Mar 07
I think face to face is the best way to confess your feelings, it may not be the easiest way but it is the most sincere way. I think i would take it the most seriously if someone told me they cared about me to my face rather than in an email or on the phone or something because it took more guts for them to do it.
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@michelledarcy (5220)
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9 Mar 07
I think face to face is the most difficult but also the most rewarding if the other person feels the same way about you. It is difficult getting the courage up to do it though.
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@scarletminivet (355)
• India
9 Mar 07
I think penning down your feelings or in today's world smsing or mailling along with beautiful fresh flowers would be best according to me..
@12051976 (231)
• Ghana
9 Mar 07
i think the best way to confess is the face to face method. am saying these because ones it has to with confession then it must be in presence of more than one person on verbal note. Sometimes your facial expression and attitude towards confession really denotes the sincerity and trustfulness of the matter in question.
Eyeball to eyeball, the best! try it
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@sandeep_2991984 (675)
• India
10 Mar 07
i think face to face is the best way to confess your feelings reamining true. but telephone call also is a good option if you feel guilty about yourself and if u have done something wrong.
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@heartsick (832)
• Philippines
10 Mar 07
well some say that it is easier to tell something by writing it on a piece of paper. this way you can express and you can tell anything on that person. but i still prefer to talk to that person personally. and be ready for the consequences. i just hope everybody have the guts to do it.. have a nice day..
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@suren2k6cse (2621)
• India
13 Mar 07
on the time of taking a good decission. it is the place made us more confuse
@webeishere (36313)
• United States
9 Mar 07
I feel the best & most sincere way is of course face to face. If it's a confession then it has to be done face to face. There is no other way that says, I'm sincere, then face to face. All other possibilities are not sincere in my eyes. Seems a way to avoid the issue in a manner. It all depends on the total situation as stated too. Live is face to face. Friendship cpuld be other ways. On & on as far as different situations. I mean from across the seas maybe the phone etc. But face to face has to be my way to confess my feelings. Thanks for a GREAT duscussion also. Another great discussion from you. I love getting to your page daily.
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@Grandmaof2 (7579)
• Canada
10 Mar 07
I think it depends on the situation but if you need to confess where the other person doesn't know yet or is in doubt because of an arguement I'd definately say face to face. I do think face to face is the harder approach but it has more meaning. You are also able to see the reaction of your partner and see what's a surprise and that gives you a chance to elaborate. I love my computer and a simple I love you via email is fine but to get in touch with serious feelings face to face is the way to go in my oppinion.
@ratburn (939)
• Philippines
10 Mar 07
yes face to face is also good. for others who cannot do it that way, a good way would be to right a letter and then give it to the person face to face. i mean you'll get to talk personally after the other reads your letter. it's also a good way since you can tell everything with no interruptions and you'll remember everything you want to say.
@tzvetelina (467)
• Bulgaria
9 Mar 07
For me it is by showing your feelings. Not just saying 'I love you' and end of story. I mean showing by your acts - the way you kiss, hug and take care, something like this. Telephone is not the best way, because I would want to make a conection with the person's eye so that I can tell wethere someone is telling me the truth or not.
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@palpalsky (899)
• United States
9 Mar 07
Well definetly face to face .True feelings come from heart and expressions .which could only be possible to face the person and specially when you are honest about the your feeling and there is nothing be scared of it . just face the person and speak your heart .Trust me you will feel good sonner or later
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@sunita1000 (2)
• India
10 Mar 07
I think best way to express feelings is face to face.
One should be always honest because honesty is best policy.
Sms would take some more time to express but face to face is a direct way to express.
You should be confident while you express your feelings and thoughts with others.
I think this will benefit everybody when they follow this method to express.
Wish you all the best.
@akopoto (177)
• Philippines
10 Mar 07
Well, I prefer confessing my feelings face to face. I think it's the best way to show your sincerity in confessing your feelings towards that person. It seems more romantic than other methods because you're actually showing how brave you are to confess. It is indeed very difficult to do but it is very satisfying after you revealed your feelings.
@Kchele (77)
• United States
10 Mar 07
Face to face I think is the best. But there is also the choice of writing a letter. Sometimes I find my thoughts and feelings come out more clear on paper. But it also depends on the individual. Whatever you are comfortable with.
@aryan77 (72)
• India
10 Mar 07
hi
this is deepak i can understand ur feeling well actually i hv experienced the same method that u are trying to do..
that is sms method but let me teel u dat it can create more misunderstandings so according to me if u really want to expres ur felling u shud go for face to face conversation.. becoz u are telling the truth
and if the person doesn't respond to u in a positive way then he or she is not made for u
may be sm1 else is waiting for u.......
so don't get disappointed
@itsmeamit (169)
• India
10 Mar 07
well according to me the best way to confess is by telling him or her face to face everything
