Have you ever thought of just leaving your life and starting over somewhere?

Dawn......A new Beginning..... - One of my favorite sayings is.........."today is the first day of the rest of your life."
Canada
March 9, 2007 5:07pm CST
Has it ever crossed your mind to just leave your city or country or even all the people in your life and just look for a completely new beginning?Take all the lessons you have learned and begin again?Some people have done that. They have simply disappeared. Not died. Just gave up on their present life and left everything and started over. Actually it is pretty intriguing when you think about it. Especially when your life as it is seems pretty hopeless and mired in conflict.
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• United States
9 Mar 07
I sometimes wish I could. More now than ever, but I know it isn't possible for me. Not only do I not have the means, but I have people who are counting on me right now. I don't think I'd be able to leave my family.
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@Michele21 (3093)
• United States
9 Mar 07
Definitely!! After having a bad few days with my husband (and kids) I wonder what I would do if I left and started over. But I really can't imagine doing it!! Not too my kids...but it is a fantacy I guess.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
10 Mar 07
Believe me I have thought of it. But I am not the adventurous type. I guess pretty scared to start all over and do something totally different and at my age now I don't think that I could.
@bgerig (1258)
• United States
9 Mar 07
yes, I have. I was married to a wonderful lady, had a couple wonderful sons, a pretty good job and was beginning to make a good life for ourselves after struggling through school, an early marraige, etc. I had to travel a great deal regularly to another city. In fact, the company had a hotel suite for me each week when I went there. Yes, I fell in love with a waitress there, started having her live with me in the suite...even when I wasn't there. We eventually had a kid and I continued this double life. I was able to support two life styles because I kept getting bonuses (which were unknown to my wife). Eventually I received a promotion and would no longer have to do the travel. I considered just not returning one week. But I decided I had to tell both women about the other women. My wife decided to stick with me...I think she knew I would feel guilty and lavish her with lots of gifts, money, etc. The other women took me to court immediately for child support, and alimony, of which I have never missed a payment even though I haven't been allowed to have much of a relationship with that son. Unfortunately, my wife did end up leaving me shortly thereafter. I do not have a regret of not running away...because I believe I will gain a relationship with my son when he becomes older, and that would never have been possible if I just ran.
• India
10 Mar 07
U in the end stood up like a man. That was good. U might have lost both the women. But its better to have confronted them both with the truth. If not u would have regretted and felt guilty all your life for missing that opportunity.
• Singapore
10 Mar 07
I do. But I am even more extreme. I do not dream of migrating to another place so that I can be a second class citizen elsewhere. Instead, I fantasize that I can leave to a place that is not the Earth we know and start a new lease of life there.
• India
10 Mar 07
Well lord, u have a wish which is very similar to my own. I did not expect such a post here
@kurtbiewald (2625)
• United States
9 Mar 07
yeah, like once a week I would have about $20 per day to get started Also, I have $5000 credit left I would NOT lose touch with parents and siblings though. Sometimes I think if I just put on my backpack and started walking it could be fun. Maybe I'll try a month of it when the weather warms up. It would be Way more fun with a girlfriend to share the adventures with.