What would you do if your partner is sterile?

If am that truly in that kind of stuation I will prefer still with her and am sure she will do the same to me:)Anyway if that should happen I will wish to face it instead of ty to hide it from my partner as I think been honest and sincere were very important for any healthy family. I might think of either adoption or babymaker as my solutions if both of us really wish to ave a child.

I am not sure how I would deal with it,I would be very upset of course.If he knew all along I would feel betrayed and I would have a hard time trusting him again.If her wasn't honest about that what else did he not tell me,right? I think that I would be mad,furious to be exact and if I would stay with him would go back to if I could learn to trust him again because I could not stay with someone I couldn't trust.That would be too stressful. I would not rule out adoption or being ai'ed.It would all depend on the overall situation. I'm glad I didn't have that to deal with. Raydene

If I found out my partner was sterile I wouldn't hold it against him... unless he was sterile by choice (vasectomy) and I'd be very hurt if we were trying to conceive when he knew it wasn't possible. I'm not even sure if that would be forgivable. Couples, especially women, deal with a lot of emotional stress while trying to conceive unsuccessfully. They are really disappointed after trying again and again. They start to question why and even feel guilty about it. I don't think a sincere and loving person would allow their significant other to suffer like that : ( If either of us were unable to conceive, by no fault of our own, I'd be okay with it. I believe everything happens for a reason so I'd accept it and consider other options if we wanted children. I'd definitely consider adoption... there are way too many kids in need of a good loving home not to consider this as an option!

I think that if he knew all along I would feel betrayed. Especially if we had been supposedly trying to conceive for years. A lot of men would not know this though as most are tested for this after marriage. Either way I would stay with him as I didn't marry his sperm - I married him. Unfortunately, it would be hard to trust him after so great a lie. I would want to adopt or consider a sperm bank.

If my husband was sterile and didn't know it, then I would think we would look into adopting a child or two. If he knew that he was sterile and didn't tell me when we met, I would be really pissed off. I wouldn't leave him because of it, however I would make sure he knew I was angry with him LOL.