I wanted to have a baby....please help me...
March 9, 2007 8:01pm CST
You are a married to the woman of your dream, 1year later you still dont have a baby and found out that your wife cannot give you a baby in which you've been longing for. And then there comes this woman of your past. You've met and because of your frustration of not having a baby you go out with this woman of your past and something happened to both of you.The woma of your past felt guilty and did not show to you after what had happend.. But after two months she suddenly appear to you and told you she is pregnant..How will you handle the situation? You dont want to end up hurting your wife's feeling and the feelings of the woman of your past?
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10 Mar 07
Hmmm...maybe you should have thought about it more carefully before doing something with your ex-girlfriend. With the scientific breakthroughs, it's not hard to conceive a child nowadays. Maybe you should have consulted a doctor together with your wife on how you two could have a child. There's a lot of fertility treatments now like in-vitro fertilization and artificial insemination the doctor can suggest which one's better for you and your wife. I think you need to be honest to your wife and face responsibility for your actions. If you really love your wife, be honest, but be prepared of the consequences of your actions, she will definitely be hurt. You should also face your responsibility for your baby, now that your going to have one. You have to support the baby and your ex-girlfriend. Best of luck!
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10 Mar 07
Well first off. I can understand your wanting to have a kid, but you did marry her. Would you really want to leave her just because she can't give you kids? You might want to be honest with her about getting another woman pregnant. She will find out sooner or later anyways, so its best it come from you instead of a stranger. No matter what, you are going to hurt your wife, theres no getting around that, but if you explain everything to her, she mayb be able to forgive you. Good luck.