He Loves another woman...

it may not be easy on your part bec as you've said, you still love him. and i salute you for being an understanding and loyal wife. you really stood for what you vowed for your marriage. however, how do you think would you live your life knowing that your 'husband' chose the other woman. can u still live your life at each waking day, having that question on your mind, 'where have i went wrng?', and dwindling on the thought that you can still patch up things with full hope. and later affect your ego as a person and as a woman? you can only give geniune love if you also love yourself. ask yourself if its really 'love' that keeps you motivated to hold on to him and to your relationship, or might be something else. rather than wasting your energy for some futile hopes, why not invest it to some steps that can make you feel better as a woman, and keep back on track to live life fully. :-)

i ll try to find out if i can change my husband(if iam lady..but fortunately/unfortunately i am a men)..if i cant ,,,the i will prepare for a divorce/