"Another Woman" ?

@mschiqui (1284)
Philippines
March 10, 2007 12:13am CST
What is your opinion, about another women? I mean another women of your husbands..Why do these women allow themselves to be the "other" women, that in fact they know it is wrong?
4 responses
@MissMo (170)
• United States
12 Mar 07
I know of a woman who let herself be the "other woman" simply because she didn't feel like she was the one morally responsible. She was single, and free to sleep with whomever she wanted. She felt that the man, as a married person, was the one who had to honor his vows, and if he chose not too, it wasn't her problem.
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• Philippines
12 Mar 07
i think they allow to be a mistress because they fall inlove with a guy, and because of love they become selfish and don't care bout other women's feelings.
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@pilbara (1436)
• Australia
10 Mar 07
Firstly in some cases a woman may not know she is in this situation as people having affairs are prone to lying about them. There are lots of reasons. These are a few I have heard of. If they do know then there are aspects of selfishness, another persons pain is not as important to us as our own gratification. Sometimes also men lie about situations (as do women) they may present a picture of being unhappy in their situation, of wanting to leave their wife and thereby invoking sympathy in the "other woman" as well as the hope that the man will leave his wife. Some women feel sexier if they are having a relationship they shouldn't, guilt or fear of being caught adds something to it.
@mschiqui (1284)
• Philippines
10 Mar 07
I just hope all people wil be sensitive enough to others feelings.
@pilbara (1436)
• Australia
10 Mar 07
I would also hope so, but I know that many people are selfish and don't really care about others feelings as much as their own.
• India
12 Mar 07
it is only due to some personal interests and personal benefits that such kind of women do that actualy they are mentally very week kind of womens who cannot have a strong inner and they needs some personal benefit by the easiest way by doing nothing and spoiling othey families and themselves toooo
• United States
18 Mar 07
I am not mentally weak and I don't need your prayers. I was not spoiling a family, they were already spoiled. I didn't do it to get something for nothing. I fell in love with someone that was in a marriage that was over, only no one wanted to be the bad guy and say it. We stopped seeing each other many times while we both grappled with our emotions. We just kept coming back to each other. It was some crazy lust thing, we just honestly fell in love slowly. We are together still and he is going through a divorce. I just wish that people would stop painting this picture that all women that are involved with someone that is married are screwed up. Some are, no doubt, but many aren't!
@mschiqui (1284)
• Philippines
19 Mar 07
It's your opinion and idea..a problem will not be solved by another problem..if a family is spoiled already, it cannot be solved by having another woman..It can be avoided from the start if we would like to.. Of course you need a prayer, you knew your life, am just praying for those wives affected that they will fully uinderstand and accept and hopefully it will not happen to you.
@mschiqui (1284)
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
We just hope and pray for these women, that tehy may realized what they are doing..