Who's your all time confidante?

United States
March 10, 2007 12:16am CST
Who is that person that you always confide in, be it problems with work, people, life, love... The one person that you always end up telling your secrets to, the stuff that you would have just kept to yourself, but then you know that telling that person would make you feel better? I have a best friend but sometimes I cannot completely tell her what I am thinking, don' mistake me, we are close but there are certain times that I just feel like the difference in our views might cause her to not understand. I have an aunt whom I think is the person that I can really confide in for she gives excellent advices and she takes whatever I tell her in a certain viewpoint that she reasons disregarding biases.
5 responses
beyondcomparison
@beyondcomparison (115)
• Philippines
10 Mar 07
I'm more comfortable sharing every sentiments I have in life with my current boyfriend. When I have problems, I feel better when he's there. He's always ready to lend a helping hand everytime I need him. These things make me consider him as not only my boyfriend but also my brother, besftriend and even confidante all the time. WHen he sees there's something wrong with me that I need to change,he also tells me.
smints8985
@smints8985 (1594)
• United States
10 Mar 07
That's good. I guess it takes a great deal of trust for us to choose a confidante.
sr0415
@sr0415 (1140)
• Philippines
19 Sep 07
Hi smints8985! There's no SPECIFIC person on whom I share my secrets with. I had a few. Actually, I share my secrets to my friends and family. Sometimes, there are things I cannot tell to my family, so I share it to my friends because they can understand better than my family. However, there are also personal issues that I share to my family because they can accept them and understand what I'm going through rather than my friends. So, sharing secrets and other personal talks also depend on to whom you are comfortable sharing them with.:) It's always good to have somebody who is available to listen to you and accept you for who you are. :) take care always and God bless! :)
cutebaby4
@cutebaby4 (196)
• India
10 Mar 07
I always confide in my girl friend, because i feel she can advise me the best. There is a difference of only one year between us, so she can understand the situation i am in. Also i advise her whenever she gets a problem, so you see that there is a mutual understanding between us. Earlier my mom was my confidant, but now i feel shy to ask her a lot of questions
decimus785
@decimus785 (1419)
• Aruba
10 Mar 07
The only person that i'm telling my recent and old secrets is my girlfriend
bezzamae
@bezzamae (447)
• Philippines
10 Mar 07
i have a close friend whom i can always confide with no matter what topic it would be.. it could be about lovelife, diet tips, beauty tips, school problems, family and anything that we could talk about. but there are also things that id rather keep it with myself.. esp. if these stuffs are easy to handle.. or things very personal and im shy to open up it with her. i also have a guy friend.. the bestfriend of my boyfriend. it amazes me much how this guy offers good pcs. of advice..