how you control your temper?
By ruelou
@ruelou (263)
Philippines
March 11, 2007 4:40am CST
in a case you were angry with your someone, how do you manager your temper in time of confrontation?
2 responses
@Phlamingho (7822)
• Denmark
11 Mar 07
I don't... I normally puch something when I'm angry.. always something, not someone :-) But it takes a lot to get me angry so it's not something that happens every day.
@apakabar2007 (1693)
• Netherlands
11 Mar 07
Before the confrontation, I'd mumbling to myself (somewhere alone) about what I'm going to say to this person and I just let it all out. And I can simply say anything I want. Because when I'm angry I tend to say things that I might regret it later on. Also I hardly listen to what other people said, so it can caused misunderstanding. So, I'd just mumbling and wait until I calmed and clear headed.
Then when it's time for confrontation, I just said the important points,calm. Still not easy but mostly saved me from said the wrong things for the wrong reason and at the wrong person.
