Have you ever fell in love with your bestfriend?

Philippines
March 11, 2007 9:43am CST
I fell in love with my bestfriend when I was in highschool and recently in college...It was a terrible experience for me because my bestfriend avoids me now...
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11 responses
• India
11 Mar 07
ya.. dear its vey commman that we fal in love wid the one who is our best friend... coz at times we r alone he is the only one who gives us all the support, love, care and motivation. we dont realise that when this person becomes our all time hit n some special feeling develop for that person. if u r lucky you get your true diamond but if not and as it is said that first love is hard to get . becomes true... ya if u dont get its really very painful...
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• Philippines
11 Mar 07
no i dont have that kind of experience
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• India
29 Jul 08
Hi friend, Its easy in love with our friend. I love my Girlfriend. I never want to tell her that i love her. Because i dear i lose her if i tell her. That much i like her. I don't know how she likes me. I think its better tell her first, if she loves me.
• Philippines
31 Oct 08
ME, I'd like to remain as his bestfriend rather than you know... Him knowing my real feelings...
• United States
11 Mar 07
yes I have. I think it's very easy to fall for your bestfriend. They are your friend for a reason right? There was already something about them that you liked or they wouldnt be your friend in the first place. Usually a bestfriend you do everything with & you are able to talk to them about everything, it's actually very common for it to happen. It's just sad like in your case when the feelings arent mutual. :( Im sorry.
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@simplycza (1480)
• Philippines
11 Mar 07
Hi there, yes it happened to me before. I kept the feeling coz i knew he was with somebody else, and somebody else and somebody else. I mean after her relationship with this girl to another girl and so on. He even dated my friend and it really hurts. I knew he won't like it if he discovers my feelings so i never told him, though sometimes its obvious i always deny it. Reason why i never spilled the feeling is I am not the kind of girl he likes. Just to forget this guy, i decided to find a job away from him. When i leave him, that's the time he knew my secret. And he finds it unfair. The rest is history, he is now married and we seldom keep in touch nowadays.
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@kawaii24 (520)
• Australia
1 Jun 07
I tried not to. Because friendship is forever however, once love enters your relationship, simple things will become soooo complicated. it's best to stay friends. :0
• Philippines
1 Jun 07
you know what?! I totally agree with you!!!
@marciascott (25529)
• United States
26 Mar 07
They probaly don't have the time or maybe they have met other friends. I had a best friend like that butthey couldn't of been your best friends same with me. You know what I am saying?
• Australia
18 Mar 07
I fell in love with a close friend. Didn't workout.
• Philippines
20 Mar 07
It won't always work out...
@jencai (3412)
• Philippines
1 Jun 07
We easily develop our feelings from our friends. We became friends to them because of some reasons. Probably because we have the same interests with them or same point of views in life. I never fall in-love with my best friend but with one of my friends instead. Actually, he's the one who started fall with me. I rejected him for some times when he proposes his love. But then I started to fall in-love with him as times passes by. Now we're 8 years in our relationship.
• Philippines
21 Mar 07
No, I didn't fall in love with my bestfrend but I fall in love with the boyfriend of my bestfriend. This man was my crush since first year HS and maybe this can be called love now(I dont know yet what is love cause I never fall in love eversince).He is the man I wish to become my husband and to be the father of my children but I know to myself that this could not happen cause he has no feelings for me and maybe now he has already a new girlfriend. He and my bestfriend broke up when we were in third year HS.
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
I understand...the same thing always happens to me...
@lil_AsZ (11)
• Philippines
23 Mar 07
well...It only proves that He is not a real bestfriend....