what is the best way to get you man to go out

Tell him that you enjoy being with him and tell him about your sweet memories about all the outings he has brought you on. Tell him you were so happy. Give him some examples of how he went out of his way to please you and to make you happy. When he does go out, give him a smile and that look of approval. I'm sure that will motivate him to do so again and again. Good luck! :)

Is this man your husband or significant other? Tell him you need a break from the kids and want to go out and enjoy time alone with him. If he still doesn't want to go out tell him you still feel the need to get out, so go with a girlfriend. Eventually he will get tired of you going out without him and hopefully he'll join you.

tell his that you will have a great time if you give it a chance.