Would you change for the person you love?

Philippines
March 11, 2007 10:17pm CST
As some say, we should love a person with who and what he really is, but when the time comes that your partner is asking you to change something about yourself, would you do it? Will it affect the way you feel about each other? Example, your partner asked you to stop smoking because it is bad for your health would you do it?
4 responses
@chiquitita (1226)
• Indonesia
12 Mar 07
I agree with raijin, we are adults and know what is best for us. If it's for my own good like he wants me to exercise more frequently to be healthier, then why not? It also shows me that he loves and cares about me. Of course I'll do it, and ask him to do the exercise together. Regards!
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
Thanks you reading my response, I appreciate it!;) You did made a very good point also!;)
@sukumar794 (5040)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
12 Mar 07
As for me I would not change neither my habits nor my outlook for any partner. In short,I am very difficult to be influenced by any of my associates.
@egay679 (152)
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
definitely yes, you know i had an experience associated with that. if i think that it would benefit me and myself, then there is no reason for me not to change. besides, your partner would be always there to support you no matter what and i think that is the best reward for changing something for him.
@raijin (10345)
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
I think if we also know that it's not good for us, then maybe it would be a great reason for a change. We are mature enough to know what is right and what is wrong for us, we always try to change for our betterness. Change to be good, and not for the worst. If the person who love's us want to help us in ridding off our vices, then I guess it is because it will never do us good. As for me, yes, I would change for those people who love's me..