Are you the same who you used to be

India
March 11, 2007 10:45pm CST
I am not, I can't imagine how one can change themselves, i am not the one who i used to be a year ago, my friends tell me they donot know me anymore, i sometimes wonder what happened to myself, but the thing is like the present one. Which one of urself do u like
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4 responses
• United States
12 Mar 07
No, I am not the same person, thankfully. When I was much younger, I was very selfish and self centered. I had a bad attitude and I just wasn't much of a likeable person. I'm thankfully a different person now. I also know that if you ask me again in five years, I won't be the same person then that I am now. In life, you continually change and grow, at least you should. The important thing, I think, is to make sure that you learn from your life and try to make it better and happier.
• India
13 Mar 07
thanx
@misheleen73 (6037)
• United States
12 Mar 07
I think everyone changes as they grow older, if not we'd all be a bunch of idiots running around like we were 13. I know I have changed a lot in my life and maybe some of my friends wouldn't understand or even like the "new" me. But I am very happy with my life and who I have become.
• India
13 Mar 07
thanx.
@Rexy_leigh (1189)
• Philippines
15 Mar 07
I should say there's always a room for growth and improvement for us...and am using that room to make me a better person and become what I am now..and hopefully a lot better as I grow old. I remember myself as somebody who loves nothing but fun and enjoyment during my college days, especially after exams... the only things I knew that time was to ask money from my parents, study a bit, and enjoy life to the fullest...by enjoying life to the fullest I mean, going out, partying all night... but I have changed since I started working and earning my own money...and much more that I am sending my younger brother to college now... I realized how hard life is, especially to do the budgeting and all...and add to that the high tuition fees that I need to pay for the younger brother's college education. This responsibility does make me a lot realistic and see life in a mature kind of perspective.
@joby_09 (498)
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
Definitely not! Old friends that i used to be a VERY, VERY bad little girl. I'm so war freak that i even tell older people bad words! But honestly, i can't remember them all. So whenever i attend reunions, people will always come to me and narrate how bad i was when i was a kid and the bad things that i've done. And that was so embarrassing! But after that, they'll realize that such a bad little girl has evolve into a very nice and sweet lady. Lol!