L0VE. how you really make it work.
March 12, 2007 1:47am CST
So, this whole thing about "love". A lot of people have different ideas on how you can make it work. Some think that you should just do everything that makes the other one happy even though if it hurts you or you don't want to. Some even think that if it doesn't go their way; then if doesn't at all. I personally think that if there is just ONE person putting all the effort into the relationship then it's not going to work out @ all. In order for a relationship to work out is if there's two people putting the effort into it. What do you think?
• United States
12 Mar 07
hmmm...well honestly, whatever I say or my advice to others doesnt necessarily apply to my own situation. For friends and family, i dont like seeing them hurt too many times so i would believe the best thing to do is let that relationship go, especially when its one sided. It's true that it takes two to work things out, otherwise one will just end up leaving as the other tries harder and harder. Also, one can only deal with so much, and if the other person doesnt see that then it's not worth it. BUT in MY case, being married, I'd do everything and anything I can to make my husband happy. There have been many times where I've been hurt so badly,that others in my situation would leave, but I love my husband soo much to the point that I can forgive ANYTHING that happens. I dont care how much i would get hurt, if i did. I'd just continue to drop the negative situations and remember the happiness and joy we had in the past, and will have in the future. For those that know me, I never really cared about myself. Always doing things for the happiness of others. Thats how i live. Thankfully, my husband loves me too and is sucessful in keeping me happy. But I don't think anyone can compare to the love that I have for my family.