will you marry someone elder than you...?

@ackars (1942)
India
March 12, 2007 4:06am CST
This qn is for all of you guys(gals too can ve a look in to it)..will you marry a girl who is elder to you..?How much do you put as the maximum age difference between you and the gal ;supposing that the gal is elder to you..?In my case a difference of up to 2 yrs seems to be okay...I mean I would go ahead and marry a gal who is max 2 yrs elder to me if such a situaion arises...Beyond that I dont think I will...What you guys have to say on it..?And what does the gals feel about geetin married to someone who is younger to you...?
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6 responses
@Sengrath (210)
• Romania
12 Mar 07
I dated a "gal" 7 years elder than me...she was nice and all ...but she was 30 ..i was 23...she wanted marrige ...heck i just got into the bussiness..so we split up ..what can I say ...keep it in the same age area 2-3 years the most.
@ThioYF (82)
• Indonesia
12 Mar 07
I don't mind marry someone elder, but the gap at least 2 or 3 years. but i won't marry someone 1 year elder or 1 year younger..
@ackars (1942)
• India
12 Mar 07
why do you put that 1 year mark...?dont you think thats a good age difference?
@chardyme (1631)
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
i would but not too old. maybe 3-5 years older than me is still ok.
• India
12 Mar 07
i can marry such girl but thats only if i will be in love
@jencai (3412)
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
well, i guess age should not be considered when you decide to marry someone. it would be the feelings of both men and women for each other. no matter their age, if they love one another, that's the best i guess.
@mcdale (21)
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
Hey dude! You are describing me. LOL! I have a girlfriend who is exactly two years older than I am. We've been on for over four years. We met each other at college when I was still on my second year and she's fourth year. It was on our first engineering students organization officers meeting for the academic year. She was just at my side and there I was staring at her all the time. It was love at first sight. She didn't like me at first and she was sort of hiding from me all the time. But my persistence paid off after a year of serious courtship. To me, I didn't feel the age gap when I fell in love with her. I was so lovestruck that it didn't matter at that time. As our relationship progressed, I didn't feel any age gap at all because in our personal exchanges I feel that we're just of the same age. I am the decision maker and she lets it be. She trusts me in handling our relationship. I feel age DO matter in a relationship. BUT I am referring to the emotional age or level of maturity of the persons involved. If you feel that emotionally you're of the same footing as the woman you're pursuing and you feel comfortable being with her, then numbers on the birthday cake will not matter to you! True love knows no boundaries - not even age nor eternity.