lost my gf cuz of a mistake

Pakistan
March 12, 2007 9:57am CST
im a chilly kinda guy and blieved that gals were just chewing gums but i was wrong wen she went away ... its true that u realise how imp ppl are when they leave u she ahs left me now and i want to get her back ....the mistake i made was that i never really lovd her and treated her as she was meant to be treated i am soooo confused plz tell me what to do????
8 responses
@laarni080 (127)
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
You did was wrong you should know what she will feel about that, you should do everything to make her forgive you. You learned youre lesson there that you should not treat your girlfriend on that way, because we also have feelings, and its also hurt to broke up to the person we love so much.
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
It's true that we only realize someone else's worth when they'er gone. Although there are people like that , i think the first thing you should learn is how to respect other people's feelings. Put yourself on other's shoes and try to think of all the consequences of your actions. But i admire you for being able to admit to yourself that you committed a mistake and is willing to win back the love you've taken for granted. Before doing any actions, you should know if you really love the girl. If you decided to win her back, be sure that you are true to yourself and that you'll stick to your decision no matter what. However, don't expect that you'll win back that love because, as we all know, if we hurt someone, it's hard to win back the trust. Be ready for all the bad things she might throw on you and accept it because it was your fault. However, if the girl is understanding enough, maybe she might give you another chance and start all over again. Well, good luck to you, friend!
@cheenlly (3477)
• Philippines
12 Mar 07
i totally agree that you will know the importance of a person when she/he is gone. You will realize it in the end. so i guess regrets occurs at the end so you realized that you love her then make a move. win her heart again, find her and court her and tell her your feelings. if she accept you it will be a happy ending and if not then i think you have to accept and learn from your lesson and move on.
@decimus785 (1419)
• Aruba
12 Mar 07
ooh no.I'm afraid that i'm gonna have the same feeling as you got when she left you.I'm think i'm not loving and treating my gf like she deserves.I think when i lose her,i'm gonna feel just like you.
@umoo120 (82)
• Pakistan
12 Mar 07
Dude, these situations in relationships actually strengthen relations. U lost ur gf becuz u were ignorant nd selfish but in the heart u actually loved here. The best thing to do is to apologise for what u have done. im sure tht if ur gf loves u, she will forguve u ;).
• United States
12 Mar 07
The only thing I can suggest is talk to her and let her know that you made a mistake. Let her know that you're willing to change and try harder for the sake of being together. She may just give you a second chance. But if you do try to get her back, make sure you are not going to just treat her the same way. Some guys just can't help it and if you really do care about her you'll let her go instead of hurting her twice.
@rsp9098 (755)
• India
12 Mar 07
i think u did a very wrong thing and u really deserve this situation as u treated ur gf like this!try to convince her and tell her whre u went wrong and then love her with ur heart but this time for real...plzzzz!!!! we ll never know the importance of a person unless u lose it!!!
@mrsbrian (1949)
• United States
12 Mar 07
did your girl realise that your not a real passionate kind of person some are some are not.i think if she will allow you to talk with her and explain your felings,some people are not good at showing there emotions,and the words i love you dont come easy,maby you can assure her that you do love her but it is hard for you to express it with words i wish you all the best winning your girl back.