How many doors do you have to close...?
By crosa125
@crosa125 (1483)
10 responses
@vikashsabharwal (552)
• India
13 Mar 07
I don't need to close any doors to my past because I am not afraid of my past. your life can never be complete without your past and by closing those doors in fact you are making your life incomplete and I a not the one who wishes to live an incomplete life. you make mistakes and you learn from them and if you close the doors your learning stops. So keep your doors wide open to let the pleasant breeze of past touch your mind and soul. Happy remembrance.
@bkfuels (1603)
• Canada
13 Mar 07
You know my past is pretty well an open book so I have nothing to hide or close off. There are things in my life that I do not let back in so I do not open the door to them. I like to open the doors up for new and better things in my life.
Thanks crosa125
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@Willowlady (10658)
• United States
13 Mar 07
None, all that I have lived, visited, experienced has made me more of what I am today. Some things I would not pick however they have happened and I am better for it in some way. Certain things are indeed put upon a shelf for they have no use for my current situation. However, I am not one to close doors.
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@Darkwing (21583)
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13 Mar 07
If you put your past behind you, in order, then you only have to close the one door to prevent it bursting into your life ever again. That's the door to your conscience.
If it's possible for you to forget the bad times, and ease your conscience then do so, and enjoy the rest of your life, trouble-free.
Brightest Blessings.
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@kurtbiewald (2625)
• United States
13 Mar 07
you have to deal with whatever is was in your own mind, then whatever people say won't sting so much, whaever you did or didn't do
we have all done things that were embarrasing or stupid
look at WHY you did whatever, maybe see a good therapist
go for whatever you want next without letting the past interfere
maybe just keep the doors open on it
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@kurtbiewald (2625)
• United States
13 Mar 07
i leave em open
so I went nuts and made a few mistakes, so what?
are you worried about people from your past or just a bad rep or guilt or what?
maybe just get some therapy
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@crosa125 (1483)
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13 Mar 07
well i thought you are a priest and i can tell you about my guilt,she won't let me sleep every night,but i can't tell you like this, first you have to open yours first,i promise i won't tell any one,i'm even going to kill meself,come on mate what are youuuu talking about? every day people in here talking about how they've got hurt and all that so i though some how i'm going to open a door for them to talk but now all of them are genius,and telling me what to do,well i'm ok with it....for me life is just a fun,i'm about 30years old,i've been to a lot of places you can't even dream about them,i've done things people they wish they could do that,for me 24 hours is not enough in a day to do what i want to do,yes i do feel guilty cos i can't live with any woman,all of them want kids and family and i just want to LIVE,my life is too short to share with some one,who i can't support,i know family life is great cos i heard that a lot even from my own family,but how many of people up there just like YOU they just make mistakes?but my mistake just burns and hurts me, nobody else but yours,hurt yourself,a woman/man you love(if you love??!!!i mean if you don't lie to yourself) then poor kids!!!!i might be the selfish one in here in your view,you might be right but no disrespecting or anything, most of you people need therapy not me,a mum who wants to come to camping with me,a dad who wants to come on holiday with us,a dad asking me for my first and last time to go to casino with him,a dad every day spends so much on his drink and somke,a friends gf who thinks i must be just a di** to fu** and so on....but none of you have guilt have you?....DO YOU KNOW THE BEST WAY TO TELL THEM FU** off IS to ASK THEM WHAT ABOUT YOUR KIDS?WHAT ABOUT YOUR FAMILY?...however most of them they got a answer for anything,and as soon as you laugh at them they blame some one else for their mistake...life is not get a someone to fu** (oh sorry yousay love)then hops kids came out...ok we feed them...i feed my dog too!!!!my friends i respect you all,some of you more than the other,i'm sorry for being nasty,i'm sorry to talk this way,but some of you really running awya from the truth.
@bubblepink (694)
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
you don't have to close doors. instead open it wide and enjoy life. motivation for a better you, is the key.
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@blackbriar (9076)
• United States
13 Mar 07
Not too many cause my past has nothing to haunt me about in the present or future.
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@blackbriar (9076)
• United States
11 May 07
Good response, ankush. Wish I would of thought of it. lol I have 3 doors in my house unless you count all the interior doors.
@silvernutbar (904)
• United States
29 May 07
Far too many doors.. and burn a few bridges on top of it. My past does not dominate my future, but colors my present.
