Famous last words!!!! Ahhh why didn't I say that?

Oh yes, this has happened far too often. I seem to lose my train of thought when arguing because I'm trying to see the other person's point of view as well. Then, when I sit down and think it all out, something pops up in my mind which I should have mentioned, and I kick myself for not having thought of it before. Of course, it's too late by then because it would only start up the argument again, so I have to try and remember another time, but that time never seems to come, does it? lol Brightest Blessings.

Well, I have those thoughts all the time about stuff, not necessarily arguments, or at least, I can't remember any arguments right now, but I remember after walking away one time, I thought of so many clever things I could say to the person I was talking to, not just to be clever but to convey my thoughts in a subtle way. And I wished I could have thought of those clever things before I walked away. Or after I hung up the phone, I thought of some different way I could have answered a question. Those are the times I wished I could just write a letter and give it to the person. There have been times when I have found the right words though...and it was usually quite funny! But I really can't remember any specific instances right now, unfortunately!