What should I do?

Philippines
March 13, 2007 12:30am CST
Our relationship seems to be perfect. But I got one problem, my husband is jealous whenever I talk to a guy. I dont even think cheating on him. I love him so much and I dont think any man other than him. We fight about he's jealousy, whenever I ask him, he just told me that he loved me so much and he also dont know why he is feeling that. I really need your advice..
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4 responses
• India
13 Mar 07
All men are possesive with the people or things they love. Tell me the truth if one fine day he suddenly stops being possesive.wouldn't you miss it.If you really want him to stop then the only thing that can be done is to make him understand and feel that "you love him much more than he loves you." He actually behaves so because to him you are the world and he is afraid of loosing you. Even if he doesnt show it on the outside thats the truth.so from now onwards make him understand that you love him more than he loves you. Best of luck to you .
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
Thanks it helps a lot.
@mizrak07 (557)
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
We have the same problem here. In my case I know why he is very jealous. Before he met me he was into a relationship he was very serious about. Sadly, only he was serious not the girl. He discovered later that he was not the only man in his girlfriend's life, there were 3 of them. Very hurt, he broke up with her and after a long time fell in love again, with me. I think he's over her but not with the feeling that he might be fooled by a woman again. That is why he's so overprotective and jealous. We always have a fight because of this, I feel bad about it.
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
Me too, I feel so bad that I do anything just to keep the relationship but just of a jealousy. Relationship may broke. But I never let it happened.
• United States
13 Mar 07
Jealousy is a hard thing for some guys to get over, Just keep assuring him you aren't going to leave and tell him the jealousy causes too many problems and fights in the relationship and he needs to trust you more
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
You know I am doing anything he wanted just to show how much i loved him. I dont even go out with my friends just to make sure that I am always with him.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
13 Mar 07
I read somewhere once that jealousy even though it is a weakness in a person, nearly everyone fears in someone of losing the one they love because when you are truly in love you think that everyone in the world alson wants your man/woman.... so if nothing else I guess you can take it as compliment in a strange way it shows he loves you and is so scared of losing you....
• Philippines
13 Mar 07
But I think it's too much. That it makes me feel that I'm a prisoner.