March 13, 2007 4:29am CST
i am 32 years old with a marriage that is clearly on the brink of falling apart. i met this 22 year old lady, a beautiful person inside and out and gosh she makes me feel like i am 18 again. i love her dearly, she seems interested but hesitates at the fact that i am a married man. i would like to explain to her my situation but she avoids getting in a situation where she's alone with me. what gives?
13 Mar 07
You've mentions that your married life is falling apart, I think you should focus first on your family, why is it falling apart, what can you do to survive that. Are you still willing to fix that, well i hope so. Because no marriage is a perfect one, you can have ups and downs, believe me I've been there, but we tried to fix things up bcoz we're married, we have a loving daughter & we both realized that we still love each other. I think you both need some time together to talk about your relationship, just go back to the time when you met each other & think all those happy times together, by then it will help both of you if you really still inlove with each other. Try to forget this girl and focus with your spouse and if you think it really won't work, go ahead but settle first with your wife & make a decision. Goodluck & God bless.
13 Mar 07
You have spent half of your life, I think u should not waste rest of your life with such conflicts with your relations. You have a wife, now at such time u are the person who she needs more. If you have children, then think about them also. If you think u can start a new relations and make it up, then why cant u improve your current relation with your family... Give it a thought. And I think that another girl is also ignoring this thing little bit. Beware of everything. Think about ur family.... it needs u..... Rest is in your hands. Wish everything goes right with u.... All The Best.
13 Mar 07
She has taken a decision i think to stay away from you.You have a family which needs you ..dont enter a dual life and end up with trouble.get rid of this infatuation and realise the fact that your wife trust you, beleives you and she is the person who is going to come along with you ..the rest of the life.Dont betray her and try to get out of this feelings for this girl.
13 Mar 07
As courtesy to your wife and children, if you have any, end your relationship first with your wife before starting a new relationship with another. Give lots of thought before you enter another relationship and give it time because, as you said, you are in an emotional state of having your marriage fall apart. It would be best to give it time to start a new relationship because it would be fair to the woman you are currently in loved with since it would also give her time to think things over.