loving me or my sister?????

perhaps your mom is just not wanting to step on your toes and giving you the freedom to grow up but because of that lose she leans more to the younger sister.sometimes when our kids get older us moms wonder where are place is in your life. Maybe you need to stand up and say mo i love you lets do something together

see its normal tendency ur sister is younger than you. then obviously they think that u r mature and thats why they dont care much about it. i think you should understand it. dont think that they dont love u, they love you also remove all this thought from ur mind

ohh hun..I know what you mean..I dont care what anyone says,,it happens..im not saying she doesnt love you..because she does,,,but i see more and more parents that favor a child and my mom was the same..im 34 yrs old and it stil happens..it was always about my sister,,she got everything she wanted..and more,.including all the attention..and i got Nill..but atthe same time this made me astronger person..my sister stil relies on my mom for everything and shes 30..she even more or less cares for her child,,and has never spent anytime with my son..it just happens..whether its right or not..and there isnt anything we can do..except ignore it..im sorry to say..but she does love you and dont forget it ok..:)

hey be practical every parents love their child equally it sometimes seems so because of the differnt ups and downs in our life try to create more love than now without thinking she loves or doesnt love

I know how you feel, because I often feel that way about my mother. She does a LOT more for my 16 year old sister than she has ever done for me in my 23 years. But you have to look at it this way. Your relationship with your mom is what you make of it. And yes, she has a part in what becomes of your relationship, but you do too. Have you tried to talk to her about your concerns? Your mom might not even realize what she is doing. I imagine it's hard to raise more than one child because one will sometimes feel left out. I'm sure she's not doing it on purpose, and that if you tried to talk to her about it, she may try to support you more also.:) *hugs*