March 13, 2007 11:56am CST
Hi guys i hope many of u here r married.....hav u encountered a fight with ur spouse....in such a case who is the first to get consoled...whether it is the husband or the wife????
13 Mar 07
Not married yet, but we're planning on it. As for the first to get consoled, if there is a fight we try to end it as soon as possible and then listen. Whoever discovers it was their problem that tempers flared (the issue may not be the problem of the person who got the most upset, but that person's reaction may have caused the fight) apologizes first, and the other gracefully affectps. No gloating, no putdowns, just sinserity.