am very possesive.....wat 2 do??
By rajkumar89
@rajkumar89 (160)
India
March 13, 2007 12:18pm CST
frens am very much possesive with my frens....wen they talk with others more closely i get irritated....i want my frens to be close with me only....can u please suggest certain ways to overcome this defect in me???
1 response
@beaniegdi (1963)
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13 Mar 07
It is just a sign that you have low self esteem and that is why you think you will lose your friends if they get close to someone else. You are probably the same in relationships, I would think you might get jelous.
The only real way to overcome this is to learn to love yourself and realise that you are good enough. You may need counselling to help you improve your confidence in yourself as it could be related to something that happened in your childhood. At least you have recognised you have a problem and that can be the first step to solving it.
@rajkumar89 (160)
• India
13 Mar 07
thanx for the reply friend....but how to do that.....nowadays even my frens understood me nd r close to me alone.....
