Am i Alone or i need a Doctor?

i am alone - m alone or i need a doctor?
@samraf (725)
India
March 13, 2007 1:43pm CST
for saying i got my girl freind, my family around me and freinds. but to me i never found my self enjoying life. every day i am having clashes with my girl freind, just because of her bad behaviour and bad language. i just cant tolerate this at all. i dont talk to any one at home, and if i talk to my gf we end up fighting. sometimes i think i really do need a doctor or is their any way to make my self happy, atleast a day in week.:) i know this sound pretty weird and funny may be but this is all about my self. i am just alone in bunch of people around me!!!!!!!Do i need a Doctor? help me please
2 responses
• United States
13 Mar 07
it depends on many things. Why are you fighting? Is it something that you are doing to make her mad, something she is doing to make you mad or something else entirely? If it is you then you need to accept that responsibility and make the necessary changes. If it is her then you need to figure out whether what she is doing needs to be changed or it that is just how she is. If it is something she is doing that she needs to change then she needs to decide if she is going to change or not. If she won't then you need to break up. If it is just her personality then you guys probably aren't a good match and need to break up. Only see a doctor as a last resort. All they want is your money and to charge you even more for prescriptions that may only hurt you more in the long run.
@samraf (725)
• India
14 Mar 07
well i think she is just the way she is now, she dont want to get better she is just having so much ego problem, i think our personality are clashing. our ego is clashing. she dont want to change neither do i want to change now onwards.
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@sechsey (1831)
• Canada
14 Mar 07
You know what you need? You need to get away and enjoy life somewhere else. Take a vacation! Spend some quiet time. A real alone time which does not necessarily mean you need to be lonely ebcause you are all alone. I think you are stressed out with all the fight you are getting from your relationship, and alone even more because you cant talk to anyone. For me, whenever i go through that, i just needed to refresh. take a break! And when i feel up to life again, i go back and mingle with people and family and bf and then life will seem brand new. If it still sucks, it wouldnt be all that bad since you got a fair share of some rest and peace and quiet already.:)