how to become a perfect mom

@eiffel (39)
Philippines
March 13, 2007 9:12pm CST
nowadays mothers are not confine at the house and take good care of the kids,but rather leave the house and works to uplift their livelihood,help financially their husbands.But as kids left out at home,they were indulge watching tv,playing video games,computers.others kids most likely love their nannies rather than their mom.what do you think the best approach for the kids and be a best mom?
2 responses
@kimko5099 (195)
• United States
14 Mar 07
My mom gave up everything to be a stay at home mom and raise three girls on her own. I think that is why we are so close. I understand that some mothers have to work and do not judge anybody but I also think that when you have a child it is your responsibility to raise them. Nowadays some people have babies and hand them off to their parents and go off partying. I chose to be a stay at home mom and also work at home so that O could contribute financially as well. This is what has worked for me and my baby.
@eiffel (39)
• Philippines
15 Mar 07
Kimko5099,its nice to know that you have work at home and at the same time being a mom to your kid.But in my case I have a work and i have to leave my kids for a while,but nevertheless i may not be a perfect mom but i see to it that everything my kids need were prepared and endorsed to their nanny.And at night,i spend time talking to them how's their activity for the day,with that the kids will be able to relate their feelings as well.
@pacwmn (79)
• United States
14 Mar 07
I value being a stay at home mom. I feel that the most important thing for my kids is to have a parent in the home. However, I understand that not everyone wants or is able to stay home with their children, so as long as you spend quality time with them and really know them and let them know for sure that you love them more than your job, working is fine too.
@eiffel (39)
• Philippines
15 Mar 07
thanks pacwmn,i agree with you,spending quality time and the assurance of how much you love your kids is the outmost concern of a mother and the responsibility of letting them to understand why a mother leave them for work.