Have you ever been in this kind of relationship ?

This could be really buggin ... Either you ignore it or face it .. ignoring might be like a cold war .. after sometime he might stop doing it but it wont last forever .. it will definitely come up sometime later while facing it and clearing it out might be painful but it will end the argument forever .. u can make him understand thats your present with him is more important than your past with someone else .. and it would be kiddish to act in a way that will create nothing but rifts in your relationship .. ask him straight .. what does he want and why is he doing this to u ... get your answers so that the tension between you two releases .. gather some guts and face it is my advice to you .. after all he is your soul mate .. right ???

yes, me and my partner also experience that kind of situation sometimes. we also started out as friends and everything was just perfect, it was the way i really and he really wanteed things to happen. but as relationships grow, we also have arguements in the way and sometimes, it's not avoidable to talk about past and whose fault was it. it's indeed not comfortable to be in that type of position, but i think that it's just normal if it don't happen frequently. i had that problem before and as i observed it, i talked to him before having to see the worse parts so after talking with my guy, we try not to indulge the past with our present arguements and also we also try to settle our differences on our opinions to fix up the fights and it did work. now everything is ok again.

Yup it really upsets me. The best thing to do is to keep silent and let him or her say it again and again. He will realize soon that he is like a robot, keep repeating the things that he is saying.

you musta done something REALLY BAD whatever it was, get past it take the sting out of it till it doesn't affect you, whetever he or anybody or you yourself says about it then find somebody better, he is mean to do that to you, he knows he is hurting you, yet he does it, why? you are in a trap I think, get out of it whatever you did, get forgiveness, total, anyway you can what matters is what you do from now on, not what you did then