here is the scenario
March 14, 2007 6:25am CST
you got pregnant, the guy who made that just disappears after knowing the fact.. you were not married at all. and your parents are really strict when it comes to that, now, how will you tell your parents your situation? will you tell them? abort the baby? hide from other place or what?
14 Mar 07
I was in this situation last 10 years ago!But i choose to keep my baby. I know how strict my family but i didnt hide. I was thought that they are going to hurt me of what happened to me. And it was opposite of what i expected. They hug and cry for me. Then they tried to talk the family of that man who is my xhusband now!
14 Mar 07
there is no easy way to tell your parents. just tell them as early as possible. when they get mad just (which they have a right to be mad) don't aggrevate the situation by talking back at them. remember your the one who is in the wrong side of the fence. just swallow everything they have to say. facing the anger of your parents is much better than having an abortion. face your parents and just take all the things they have to say you. don't answer them back. if they ask where and who the father of the baby, tell them who he is. don't try and protect the guy, he left you remember. and don't hide out, that is another very bad idea. maybe some of you who will read my comments and say its easier said than done. well, i have been in a lot of tight situation myself in my younger years. but i never once runaway from my mistakes and responsibilities. i have face them head on. to be honest facing your responsibilities is easier than running away from them. i have face parents of my wife and have been the recipient of their anger. when you know your wrong, you don't talk back. just admit your mistakes and take everything that they can dishout to you.
14 Mar 07
that's great. you had given me the best thing to do, whenever that happens to anyone here. you have a strong personality and brave enough to face life. congratulations! i have chosen you for 'BEST RESPONSE' with this topic. nice meeting you. you had a job well done. thank you.
15 Mar 07
you should be responsible for every little thing that you do. whatever is the consequence of your action, you should be ready to face it. that's a mature way of dealing with things. now, if you did that thing and things do not turn out the way you expect them,i think the best way to deal with it is to tell your parents that you are pregnant. yes, that's not an easy way because there never is. you just have to accept the fact that your parents MAY or CAN be so cruel but for sure, that will be just for sometime. no matter what happens, you still are their daughter. in the first place, you knew even then that they were strict and you know very well that with the situation that you are into now, they cannot just say "okay. this is entirely a different scenario. we are no longer strict." that won't happen. of course not. so after telling your parents, keep the child and rear him in a very good way. show the man who did that to you that no, his spinelessness isn't giving you a share of cowardice. the best revenge is living a good life and becoming successful. and oh! time heals all pains.