Spy

I dont have kids, but if I do, I will definitely be!! I am a very cautious person and I want to make sure they arent setting themselves to get in trouble or anything bad happening to them. I would worry too much!

I don't call it 'spying'...I call it being a parent. I make it perfectly clear that I have the right to check out their MySpace as well as email accounts. I don't do it often however I was a teenager myself once so I know what kinds of things kids can get into. Its my job as a parent to keep a watch on things.

I don't "spy" I make it very clear and obviouse to them that I can and will (and do) look at anything and everything they do on My Space and Xanga. I have an account so I get copied on anything they post. I talk to them about anything I see that seems inappropriate. I even talk to their friends when I see them posting things that are questionable. Sorry but you have to be on top of these things in this day and age.

I'm a 'kid' myself and I don't see why there would be a problem with that, if they want to show everyone else what their really like why can they show you