The Thing I've Loved, I've Lost !

@Bbilal (1998)
March 14, 2007 4:45pm CST
Why it always happened with me that what ever I love is went away from me? I always asked to God that 'Why me?' but did not get any response from His side. I was in a relation with a girl since four years and I am into her, I couldn't even survive to breath without her, but as I lost everything I lost her just on a normal fight. I want her back with me and want to live once again. Can you help me in this regard? I'll be so thankful to you if you give me some tips how to call her back when I know she is committed with someone else? It's not like she don't love me now I asked her by doing a short message that 'did you ever loved me?' her answer was 'yes' so I know I can get her back. But the thing is I don't know how to say leave him and commit yourself with me again. I am totally confused about this thing and need your help. Each and every post will be highly appreciated!
2 responses
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
6 years ago, i've experienced the same thing that happened to you..i blamed God for everything because before i gave my heart to that person, i really prayed so hard telling God that if that man really was for me then He'll let me to answer yes about his love..but then, things went wrong..the guy left me, knowing he is the person that God gave to me..I hated God...for two years I've never prayed. I'm always thinking that whenever my faith with Him becomes stronger more troubles come.. but now i know that God pulled away that man and gave much better one who'll love me more.. now i've realized that i have no right to blame him for every bad thing that happen to me..
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@Bbilal (1998)
16 Mar 07
Let's see what will happen with me in the coming future! May be I'll die or may be I'll survive.
• Canada
18 Mar 07
This is a tough one, and I don't want to hurt your feelings by saying this but I have to. When you asked your ex if she ever loved you and she said yes. You asked in past tense. Maybe she did love you, but she doesn't anymore? Or maybe she still does ... but if she did wouldn't she try and work things out with you as opposed to committing to someone else? The only way your going to know is if you see her face to face and ask her the questions you need answered. Those are just my thoughts anyhow.