promised update on what's happening....

@xXmeganxX (4421)
March 15, 2007 8:28am CST
hey peeps well the plans have dramatically changed, ahh! in the place where im meant to be going, they have no vacancy's until monday! so on monday, what that worker wants to do is - bring a van to my house to take all my belongings to put into storage for a while! then take me and my daughter and leave my partner in the street!!!! OMG! i said NO, that's a bad way to go about it! we need the police to take him first then i go so he doesn't have a clue what's going on! she said she want's him to get violent then she will ring the police but that's not a good idea, but she's saying she wants it done this way but i know he wouldn't hesitate to give her a beating because he doesn't like her as it is!! im going to try and change the plans with her tho over the weekend and see if she will go with what i said because i think that's a better idea! what do you think, my plans are better or hers? and yay im here till monday so i can spend my time on mylot! =) thanks in advance! =)
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@lols189 (4797)
15 Mar 07
she is a divie i was trying to explain all of taht to her today and she was having none of it. apparently her ideas are better than ours but i am too going to tell her to follow our plans as they are much more easier and less complicated. go on the im please i want to talk to you megs :-)
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@xXmeganxX (4421)
16 Mar 07
i know lols okay ive spoke to you anyway now you silly girl! just the weekend left now and i will sniff freedom coming to me as soon as i wake up on monday morning im sh****ng it like but what can you do eh! =)
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@marlyse (1056)
• Switzerland
15 Mar 07
hmmmm i wonder from where this woman got her job. it seems she is not qualified for that. you are so right megan, she shouldnt provoke him. at first, he didnt do something to her, so its absolutely not necessary to do that. it would hurt you and your girl to much too. tell her you dont want it this way, your way is much better. grrrr i could give her a tap on her ..... no i slap her with an old fish lol no serious megan, please be careful, she acts in a bad way now and he might find out what happens before someone could take care of you. i pray for you that all goes well. hugssssss
@xXmeganxX (4421)
15 Mar 07
hiya marlyse im glad you agree with me because really she doesn't know what he's like well really, she's only seen bits of him when he gets angry and he wouldn't hesitate to slap her, i know and should because ive been with him for 3 years now! what she says to our lols is that she's bringing police with her but she said to me she isn't! =/ right ive just worked out a plan with our lols! please advise if this is a good idea! right she is coming sometime on monday with a removal van, in the meantime i have to get all of my documents like birth certificate, passport, tenancy aggreement and other important bits like that together and put them away in a little bag ready for me to take. then she says she's coming to mine and bringing the removal van but what ive said to our lols, if she DOESN'T come with the police, what i could say to my partner is that my landlord is evicting me because i can't afford the rent for the house and i have nowhere to stay that way our goverment is putting me and the baby somewhere for a while until i get rehoused! do you think this is good advice to tell him marlyse incase she doesn't bring the police with her??? please advise and thanks for your response! =)
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@marlyse (1056)
• Switzerland
15 Mar 07
yes thats the best you can do telling him that with the landlord. it seems he doesnt know her to good, so you can tell him that. a great idea, and megan, i hope lols is with you on monday, so you havent to stay alone with your kid. good idea megan ;-)
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@xXmeganxX (4421)
15 Mar 07
i don't know is she will be in college or not on monday, i think she may be off but i know she is in on tuesday, and that's my shopping day =( probably somebody will take me shopping so im not all alone with my daughter incase some bad people try to kidnap me and my daughter isn't it!! yeah well when i go on the monday, i can go around to our lols house anyway as she is only literally a 2 minute walk from that place where i will be staying so that's good! thanks alot for advising me that my solution is right just incase that woman comes alone, we can say the landlord has evicted me hehe because he doesn't really know the landlord anyway he's seen her only 1 time and never spoke to her phew! i got good thinking me sometimes, my brain speeds up of an evening time hehe! thanks gfor your PM too i got it! =) +
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@Sir_bobby88 (8241)
• Singapore
16 Mar 07
I do think that your plan is better but sometimes other people think differently yea
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@xXmeganxX (4421)
16 Mar 07
thanks for your response bobby! =)
• Ireland
15 Mar 07
I wonder if this woman is qualified to do her job as she seems to have a screw loose somewhere. The police will probably arrest her for instigating trouble and she is also putting you and your baby at risk. If she is going to go ahead with this, then I would suggest that you go somewhere safe the night before. I wouldn't be inclined to hang around knowing what the outcome might be.
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@xXmeganxX (4421)
15 Mar 07
i know alexandria im soo scared now but i have absolutley nowhere to go! our lols is only in a 1 bed flat and it's small with her boyfriend! =( im going to speak to her again tomorrow and work something out with her! thanks alot for responding! =)
@dfinster (3535)
• United States
15 Mar 07
Thanks for keeping us posted on your situation. I completely disagree with what this woman is telling you to do. Getting out is a good idea, involving law enforcement for you and your daughter's safety is a good idea, but trying to provoke his anger is insane. You don't know what he's fully capable of doing and you shouldn't try to find out on your own without the help of proffessionals. Please try to make it to Monday and let the police take him first so we know you're safe. Keep us posted!
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@xXmeganxX (4421)
15 Mar 07
tes dfinster i agree with you BUT what she's telling me is that he needs to hit one of us first and then the police will come and arrest him! i don't want it done this way tho it's too risky and sounds bad! what should i do because she won't listen to me! =(
@gabs8513 (48708)
• United Kingdom
15 Mar 07
Well I am sorry but this Woman does not know what she is doing. She can not provoke him and also she is putting you at risk never mind sorting it with her, get onto her Office and the Police for that matter, as this can turn very nasty. She does not have a clue at all the way I see it.
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@xXmeganxX (4421)
15 Mar 07
hiya gabs i totally agree with you, this is a horrible way to deal with the situation, i wish she would listen but she won't so i got our lols to ring her and she said to our lols that on monday she's coming with 2 officers hmmm i wish she'd get her story right and she told me that she wants him to hit one of us so he will be arrested because as far as she's concerned he isn't going to be arrested ahhhhhhh! i really don't know what to do because i don't want him lashing out! im stuck in a hard situation now! =(