family and career

family - family or career?
Malaysia
March 15, 2007 8:29am CST
nowadays people is more concern about the career than the family,but if one day you are pregnant or you let a girl pregnant and that time you have a good chance to work, this work will let you career become sucessful,but the condition is you need fokus this work 2 years and during this two years you cannot pregnant and cannot have the family burden,so now what will you choose for this choice? family or career?
1 response
@sd03bc06 (15)
• United States
15 Mar 07
I guess everyones answer will be differant of course. There are alot of varables that can make someone's answer swing either way. Age is one thing that needs to be considered, if someone is older will they still be able to have children after that two years is up. Also, how do you know that after two years something else is not going to come up and take even more time away from starting a family. I personally have choosen my family. While raising my kids I have gone back to school so when my kids start school I can start a career. If I would have had an opportunity come along before I got pregnant I would have still choosen to have children just because I always knew I would be the one taking care of my kids and I dont know how a company would feel giving me a great opportunity knowing once the two years are up Im going to quit my job and stay home.
• Malaysia
15 Mar 07
then you must is a person who love family so much,wish you have a happy family