i cant control my anger...especially against my mom...how can i control tat??
March 15, 2007 8:40am CST
for a few months iam getting angry for small issues...especially i get really angry on my mom...i know i must not do it... pls tell me how to control it....
15 Mar 07
This is wrong, very wrong. You must respect and love your mom. If you feel that way, it means you have lost your respect for her. Why? After weighing it all and thus knowing why, approach your mom kindly. Tell her that you want to have a heart to heart talk with her. Now, unload everything. Ask her to please listen to your side because, you are not out to pick a quarrel with her. Ask her if she had noticed that you have been acting bad lately towards her. Tell her how sorry you are about that. Now, tell her what's in your mind. After that, ask her what's in her mind. The healing must be taking place here and this is your starting point of ironing out in order to have again a good and beautiful relationship with your mom. Do not entertain too many qualms about your mother. They are always there loving and caring enough for their kids.
15 Mar 07
You know that u are wrong in doing so and u still get angry.....U maybe be trying to remove ur frustation on your mom by getting angry on her or she is the only one who goes through it.....U just want to let her leave u on ur own maybe that can be the reason of your frustation ...u do not want her to interfere in ur small issues ..if u explain it in detail maybe one of us out here can help u....