Just ERRRRRRRR

Canada
March 15, 2007 12:00pm CST
Okay, i know, another frustrated banter from the basket case.... Well, this is the story of my life, sorry, don't read if you don't want to... I'm SOOOO Tired, god, all the time, i mean i know it has to do with me being up late and everything, every night, and when i get off this computer i go and do other things, and then eventually go to bed.... The other night i spent 4 hours working out the stains of one of my roomies shirts, she seems to think that since i can get out any stain, that she can just do whatever she wants and leave it to me... Well, since i was doing one shirt of hers, i told her to get all the crap (Not the word i used but they don't like the word i used here!) our of her room and bring it all to me, i was working out the stains in the bathtub, so i figured i would just do all her clothes there, it's easy, and they get a lot cleaner (She's a pig, disgusting, messy, stains everything, AND SHE WAS GOING TO THROW THEM OUT!!!) well, it's been about 2 days now, and still, their all over her room, no laundry has gotten done, well except one load that she threw in the wash, then she pulled out 2 items, left the washer open (Full of water, and the rest of the clothes) and threw them in the dryer... I haven't been cooking so much lately, i decided it was fend for themselves time, cause i'm sick of not getting the simplest thank you out of the deal, but when i clean the house, err I brought my computer back to the bedroom, I'm trying something new out and need full concentration, and i can't get that with the tv blaring, well, the livingroom was clean, not perfect, but it was pretty clean, tidy and nice, and now, it's a disaster, last night i went in there and cleaned it up again, since they had made a HUGE mess after i moved the computer out, well, yeah, once again, some how they just made it disgusting.... The dishes aren't done, once again, something i have to do today, the basement's in shams, i'm so frustrated... And i know that after this discussion is posted, and i'm done talking to my really good friend, i'm going to go back to being the slave i am and cleaning this dump, but i'm just so damned tired.... I know, this isn't probably the place, but whatever... Sorry guys.... You ever feel like you just want to tell them all to do it themselves and get the hell out? Don't worry it'll pass, i'm just tired, and tired = Cranky, I can't wait till my roomies move out, and maybe i get to move somewhere where i don't feel so trapped in my own home. Thanks for listening all of you, say what you want, and i'm still rating, have a good one.
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@xXmeganxX (4417)
15 Mar 07
hi there, don't worry too much about it, either ask them to be nice and clean or to leave, i know that sounds bad but if you fel like your being a slave then don't do it anymore. i know i wouldn't like to sit in mess but sometimes i honestly do! my partner is a tramp in my eyes and he is so dirty it's inreal, i go mental at him because im a clean freak, lol! so sometimes just sit there it will be hard and tell them to clean it up because they made the mess! i too feel like a slave to be honest but i will be okay after monday because i will just have my daughter to clean up after as im ending our relationship phew, lol! rated discussion + =)
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• Canada
15 Mar 07
awww, your sweet, thanks, yeah seems as we both feel the same, my husband isn't so bad, but the roomies, err, My female roomie, she's livid with me right now, i went down to change the laundry over and pull a load out of the dryer that i forgot yesterday, and low and behold, i find my CLEAN laundry EVERYWHERE, yeah that's right, no longer clean... so i blew a gasket, and damn do i feel a lot better. Next it's going to be to ask her to get her **** Together if she has a problem. Congrats, if you can't stand the guy that much, then you so deserve to be congratulated on getting rid of him!!!
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@xXmeganxX (4417)
15 Mar 07
thanks for responding back to me with your nice comment! =)
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@jimfabo (327)
• India
15 Mar 07
I don't know how can you take all these and still want to do more!!! you say you feel like slave!!! why you doing it to yourself? Talk to your roomy.. make your point clear and if she does not follow i suggest JUST THROW HER OUT OF YOUR APT ASAP Good luck!! just one think like to add here... you are not slave and no one can make you feel like one!! if anyone try to do so please throw them out of your life!! lol,jimmy
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• Canada
15 Mar 07
You know, i know what your saying, but i do it because i can't STAND living in a pig stye, it's just too much for me to handle, and well, my friends really don't like me when my house is a mess, cause i get really cranky and stuff :P Thanks hun, i'm thinking on that!
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@soccermom (3198)
• United States
15 Mar 07
Spitfire, it's time to use some tough love on your roomies. I'd get a big write on wipe off board and assign them each their own chores to do, or at least lay down the law that you are putting a roof over their head they need to start having some respect for you and clean up after themselves! I don't know what the situation is in your household, but tired and cranky or not, it sounds like your roomies are taking advantage of you and your personality. Try to take a day off soon, blow off the housework and just relax. You deserve it. I hope it gets better soon.
• Canada
15 Mar 07
Thanks hun, unfortunately taking a couple of days off is why my house looks like this. The board thing is a good idea, though i've in a sence done this, i took a big sheet of paper and wrote out all the house rules and what i expect of everyone if they didn't comply.... Well, this is what i got. HAHAHA That's Funny! Where'd you come up with that one? Thanks for making me laugh! yeah, their not too bright.... I'm nearly out of my mood, but i've taken out a lot of my aggrivation out on the house already, going for the rest of the kitchen and the bathroom after my break! Thanks hun, your a sweetheart, And thanks everyone for your kind words, I think i'm gonna look for another house, i wanna get out of here, i think this place has a lot to do with how i feel too, too cramped.
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@Caila611 (992)
• United States
15 Mar 07
Are you sure your not living here? LOL! I feel the same way about my hubby and olderst daughter! HOLY cow!
• Canada
15 Mar 07
haha, who knows, frustrating eh.... Thanks hunni
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