what is the ideal time to inform ur parents about ur love ?

India
March 15, 2007 12:12pm CST
hello friends i am in a similar kind of situation. can some one tell me that what is the right time to inform ur parents about your love?
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6 responses
Rexy_leigh
@Rexy_leigh (1189)
• Philippines
15 Mar 07
I can see in your profile that you're already 21...so I guess there should be no big issues with you having a new love for your life. I mean, when I started dating (childlike relationships, puppy love) way back in high school, I was a teenager then, I understood that somehow I need to hide those stuffs coz I was yet so young. But when I came to the point where I felt like the relationship I have is serious and especially that I was already at the legal age (I was 20), and soon to finish my college, I felt like I can easily tell my parents about it. I mean, not that easy though but I know they could understand as they can see am already a lil old to know what am doing and would take care of myself and the relationship I have with my boyfriend...not sacrificing my studies of course.
paresh44_44
@paresh44_44 (334)
• India
15 Mar 07
its good that u cheched my profile first. obviously legally nobody can stop me. but when it comes to informing abt ur parents, it is very difficult atleast for me. thankyou!!
malini4u
@malini4u (896)
• India
15 Mar 07
if ur guy its better to tell to ur dad..cause he understands guys more than mom....try it out....u can easily make him understand
paresh44_44
@paresh44_44 (334)
• India
15 Mar 07
SORRY!! dear , i dont thin that i will try this, because my dad is very strict, and he will simply smash me. instead i will prefer to tell my mom first, she i think may convince my dad. thanks for suggestion!!
k1tten
@k1tten (2318)
• United States
15 Mar 07
Well, my father actually already knew about my gf and I somehow. I'd have to say just go with your gut instinct or your partner's. If you don't want to do that ask your partner about how they feel and when they think it should be done.
paresh44_44
@paresh44_44 (334)
• India
15 Mar 07
thats good that ur father knows abt ur gf. so u didnt mention what was thier reaction? but anyways it's looking normal. i will definately try this out. thanks
healer
@healer (1779)
• India
15 Mar 07
It depends on you only, if you and your partner is fully confident to settle down. If the commitment is there than there is no problem just confess what's in your mind to your parents.
paresh44_44
@paresh44_44 (334)
• India
15 Mar 07
i will surely discuss with her, and take dicission. thankyou!!
Newbie11
@Newbie11 (197)
• United States
15 Mar 07
If you both are eighteen years and older and serious about your relationship then it is right time to tell your parents.
nnishaant
@nnishaant (60)
• India
14 Jun 07
What are you doing buddy???are you well settled in your life and doing your job?I think you should not tell it to ur parents untill and unless you prove yourself to them.....After proving urself you can go ahead with courage and tell them about your love.It might cause problem at taht time also but it could be solved then...