Forbidden love?

@xyverz (51)
Philippines
March 15, 2007 9:32pm CST
Hi,guys! I truly need your advice. I dont know what to do. Im falling inlove with the girlfriend of my bestfriend. I do love the girl. Everytime I sees her, my heart beats faster and my day is complete. Will I tell her about my feelings? or just,leaving them alone,keeping my feelings by myself? Please do help me
3 responses
@lyndee22 (1210)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
i think you're just infatuated. that's not love you're feeling. it does not mean that the more you see her the more your love of her grows. you're just having fond of her. do you want to be called a "snatcher"? it's better if you court another girl so that you could test your feelings. i think if you had found the girl and had someone on your side that you can share your time, the feeling with your bestfriends girlfriend will subside.
@xyverz (51)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
Thanks. I'll give it a try
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
Well..in my opinion...I think you're really not inlove..Maybe its just an infatuation...Hmmm..i think you better keep this to yourself for it might disturb their relationship..You don;t want that to happen right???And let's put it this way...Assume that you'r in the place of your boyfriend..how would you feel if you found out that you're bestfriend isa falling inlove with your girl...it sucks...For me as a sign of respect and for the sake of your friendship..You better resists on yor feelings...There's still a lot of girls out there but it's hard to find a new bestfriend for it takes time to establish a good friendship...so that's it..hope i did make some sense....
@xyverz (51)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
Thanks alot
• Philippines
19 Mar 07
Actually, forbidden love is when you are having an affair with somebody who is already married to another. In your case you are infantuated with the girl of your bestfriend. Well, if you love the girl, you dont want her to be unhappy. Because she will be unhappy the moment that you interfere in their lovelife. Just wait and see. If they are meant for each other, and when she needs your company, its your turn. okay? Hope you would be able to solve your heart problem.