Will you help a beggar?

@lucy67 (819)
China
March 16, 2007 8:26am CST
Today on my way home, I saw a beggar who was very dirty and in rags. It was raining at the moment but he had nothing to shelter himself from the rain. I gave him my umbrella and shared another umbrella with my friend. My friend said jokingly that perhaps the beggar stood in the rain on purpose to gain others' sympathy. I didn't believe him, however we decided to go back and see. To my surprise, the beggar was still there, standing in the rain. But I couldn't find my umbrella. I felt cheated. Will you help a beggar? What will you do if such a thing happens to you?
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@eaforeman6 (8979)
• United States
16 Mar 07
what if jesus came back as a beggar? to deny someone in need is to deny christ? I think there will be some who lie and are trying to take advatage but there are also many with real needs. I would help the person.
@lucy67 (819)
• China
16 Mar 07
I would, too though I feel a little hurt this time.
• Bangladesh
16 Mar 07
Yes. In all religion it is suggested to help the poor people. They might use your sympathy. But if ones intention is honest in the long run he will win the heart of god. He will be awarded by helping the poor.
• India
16 Mar 07
Why the christ will stand by the side of the road? why he need umbrella?? Why will he wear a dirty cloth??. If you are thinking, the man standing at the road side is Christ, then you definitely deny him to give anything, because you had recognised the cheater.
@Julia3269 (217)
• United States
16 Mar 07
You are very kind and I believe you did the right thing. Don't worry about the umbrella. Most folks have too many. For some reason I get lots of umbrellas at Christmas and you have given me an idea on how to get rid of them. lol! We see people holding signs saying "Will work for food." So we go home and make them a sandwich and take it to them. Giving them what they need seems to be the right thing but I have reservations about giving money. You know, the beggar, in turn, could have given the umbrella to a small homeless or orphan child who was getting drenched. Kindness begets kindness. :)
@lucy67 (819)
• China
16 Mar 07
from your comment i can see you are very kind and your explanation of the disappearance of the umbrella makes me feel ashamed of myself. i felt hurt because i thought the beggar had cheated me. why hadn't i thought it in your way. thank you.
• India
17 Mar 07
your are a very good person.
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
I commend you for what you did. You got my admiration and respect. It doesn't matter if the person trick you or not. God sees the desire of your heart and you intended to do something good. The only opinion that counts the most is His opinion of you. Even when people would lie, cheat, or trick you. Do good anyway.
• United States
16 Mar 07
I absolutely agree with you, it is a matter of what is in your heart. People are supposed to do things because it is what is in his/her heart. As to the poster, why take it personal? You did your part, you helped someone in need, forget it and move on. Sometimes helping people is warranted sometimes it is not. The point is you cannot second guess helping someone, not if it is what's in your heart. Grow some thicker skin and keep being the person that you are or want to be. This post just inspired my first post.
@coolsree (509)
• India
17 Mar 07
IT was very poor that you have to come through a situation like that. naturally beggers do like that only because they are begging to live. Insted of working.Insted of umberla if you ahve given hi an 100 $ then also he might have stayed there begging.
@myklaire (437)
• Philippines
17 Mar 07
I am a good samaritan. I love helping the less fortunate. It is just sad to know that there are others who take advantage of your kindness. Usually, I give food to beggars, not money or material things. But sometimes, I also give them used clothing.
@kclaret59 (587)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
it depends.. if a beggar looks like he can still handle himself, meaning, he can still look for a decent living, well, i certainly am not helping him. and also i don'tlike to help the blind accompanied with a healthy partner. but some beggars really look helpless which makes you think that he really has no other choice but to beg, then i have some spare coins in my pocket for him. tadaaaa!!!!
• Philippines
17 Mar 07
I agree with this, if that beggar is strong enough to get a job then it might not be a good idea to throw out some coins.
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
17 Mar 07
really? i think he just wants the money not sympathy. i have helped a beggar, only gave them food and most of the time not money. i feel for them but i have been cheated before so i try to be cautious.
• Philippines
17 Mar 07
you did what you think is right, and I know you have a very kind heart for others. now if he cheated you that does not mean you did not help him its just he is the one who will carry the burden of cheating people soon. maybe he needs more than just an umbrella, just pray for his soul
@zlesing (487)
• China
17 Mar 07
In my country,there are many beggars,especially in the big cities.Many of them are disabled.At first,when I saw those beggars,I'm feel very sorry about that and will give some money to them.But when I saw this more times,I felt cheated.I started to hate those beggars who with a good body but still want to gain sympathy.But I still will help a beggar who really need help.
@arunna (32)
• India
17 Mar 07
i will surely help a beggar.....i guess they are people born with a curse...we need to help each them and at least give whatever is possible from our side....after all we all are human-beings...its humanitarian act which is a good habit....but at the same time...beware of some beggars with attitude....but dont go to an extent of giving an umbrella or any of ur other belongings which is essential for....donating is a good deed but not at the cost of ur misery....
@ipodbaby (53)
• Philippines
17 Mar 07
May be the beggar gave your umbrella to his fellow beggar, who knows right? I, too, am very low hearted. I easily feel ruth for those impoverished family i see on streets. It just melt my heart whenever i see those kids who, at young age, are working when they should be at school studying; and those babies drinking water instead of milk; and those grandmas and grandpas sleeping along side of the streets enduring the cold nigh wind when they should be in a good shelter to avoid illness; and those families who are sharing a plate of rice and salt as their viand. It struck me most during Christmas when everyone's expected to have gifts.
@tonytan (16)
• China
17 Mar 07
honestly,i do not give money and sympathy to a street begger.in my city,government have builded some institution to help those person,but ,unfortunely,few beggers are willing to get the government's help,why?through some investigation,i got the reason.it is becouse those beggers are not real begger,they made begering as their way to make money ,some of them even richer than others.so when i see a begger i allways persuade them to get the government's help.
@mskzalameda (4023)
• Philippines
17 Mar 07
i will if the beggar is really a true one. you would sense if he is a fake or not. but then, if you gave something for the fake beggar, God is the one who will give that to you in return.
@PEYUUU (14)
• China
17 Mar 07
r u Chinese?
• India
17 Mar 07
yes why not ?
• Philippines
17 Mar 07
When I find a beggar in the streets I really feel pity to them. I just can't explain my mixed feelings towards their situation. That is why I always give alms to them if I have money. The government should make an action about this for the better of their life.
@cindy83 (133)
• China
17 Mar 07
Yes, sometimes I do it. When I see one beggar on the street, I always give some money to him, I feel that he need the money. But now, on the street, there are a lot of scam, many people is cheat people for money, they don't really is a beggar, they just do it for money, I cannot tolorate it, and I hate it.
@Abbyey (760)
• Philippines
17 Mar 07
What you did is still good works because your HEART wanted to help and you felt pity for the beggar though you were cheated because he was only pretending. I would also feel bad when it happens to me. That's why when i help a beggar i give him/her food such as bread or cookies when i have some. I do not give MONEY or other material things, WHY? Well in my country there are a lot of beggars, some are owned by syndicates which the government are trying to catch. Some syndicate even kidnap young kids and old people to make them look like beggars, hurting them so that they will have the Fear to leave. That's why i dont give Money or material things rather it is best to give them Food to eat. Thanks for sharing that to mylot. :P
@linoge (102)
• United States
17 Mar 07
really wanna, but in my country, lots of beggar is cheater :( their clothes is dirty and lot of tear but thir house is really big :( big enough to 2 or 3 family :(
@umi_86 (32)
• Pakistan
17 Mar 07
just think that if there is a person who is asking u in such a way that u get sympathy to him,he will always use this trick again n agian,i think we should not be helping of such beggars whos aims always to get money by applying tricks 2 people 4 their sympathy.we must be aware in a way where there are comming from