how to show a girl you love her

@megaplaza (1441)
Nigeria
March 16, 2007 3:17pm CST
i have a girl that i have know for years, i love her i have told her several times that i love her. but she told me she loves me too, but she thinks we are not compatible and also they i hide my love for her that i dont show it. besides, whenevr i am with her, i hardly know what to discuss with her. i think i need help and sought for that help here in this great forum.
4 responses
@healer (1779)
• India
16 Mar 07
If you really love her don't doubt yourself, be grateful that you are in love with someone who loves you back in return. There are situations in which class matters but don't be discouraged by that keep on loving her. One day she will realize how you loved her even if you cannot be together, and at the same time you will also be grateful for the opportunity that you loved somebody more than yourself. Keep the faith and play your part of love things will surely work, if not also you will treasure it forever and everybody wants that treasure in their lives. Good luck to you in your future.
• India
16 Mar 07
The way one can really express love would surely not be by buying expensive gifts or taking out to a famous restaurant. When you are with her just hold her hand and try to speak out your feelings just by looking straight into her eyes. Dont start speaking abt some world news or something like that but just speak what you feel when u with her. Girls do really like the way her boyfriend holds her and speaks, it shows the intimate relation u wish to build. just go out for a small walk or to some restaurant or beach, ask her where she prefers to go n what are her likes and dislikes. Do try to remember some small occasions and just give her a surprise gift which cud just be a rose flower that would make her feel really cared and loved. I wish you both a happy life ever.
• United States
16 Mar 07
My husband is horrible at showing that he loves me. I explain it to him like this...if you love someone you take every opportunity to show them how much you love them. It does not matter that you give her a lot of money or monetary things. It's the little things that count. Like picking her a flower, or brushing her hair from her eyes. Those things matter the most. At least they do to me. Write her a poem or a letter to explain to her the love you have. The more personal, the better. I know you said that you don't know what to talk about anymore, but here's an idea: show interest in the things that she enjoys. If you don't know anything about it, ask her. It's another way to connect with her. Best of luck to you and her. Remember: Love will find a way.
@ralf_jay (213)
• Sweden
16 Mar 07
ill tell you one thing bro. girls always need a good friend and a good admirer. they look for the way you care them , your activities and most of the girls like talking to each other but the problem is boys really doesnt have that much of patience. girls always expects a boy with some surprise which makes her feel happy. so i think you got my point give her some surprises without her concern and she will feel excited and thats makes your love life work stronger.your surprise will become the topic of the day when you meet your gf next time.