Am I bad?
By reykja
@reykja (121)
March 17, 2007 4:05am CST
A friend asks me to come and sleepover at my place because she has some other friends who came and visit her and are using her room in the student house.
The first night, she told me she'd come at 11pm, then calls me at half past 11 saying that her friends' train arrived late and they're still catching up and she'd come at 12am. She texted me saying she'd b here at 12.15 then turned up around 1.15am and I was already in bed but I was woken up by the phone and let her in.
Yesterday, she went out with her friends, I sent her an sms if something was going on in town. She said come meet me at this bar in 30mins. We hung out with her friends and one of our friends from town. Then around 12 smth, she said, my friends are tired, they want to go. I walked back with them to their place first and she said, I'm just going to drop my friends off and I'll go home with you. She didn't. She started sending an e-mail, kept on chatting and even got changed into comfy clothes. I said I'll go home first.
I put my phone on silence but was talking to my bf on skype. She rang me at 2am when she told me she'd be here around 1.20 or so. I found it really rude so I didn't pick up. Then she sent me an sms saying don't know where u are but i'm going home. So I sent an sms (because I was feeling bad) saying that my phone was on silent but I can wait for her if she still wants to sleep here. I got no delivery report so her phone must have been off by then. Afterwards she tried to call me on skype, but I was already talking to my bf and she didn't wait long and went off line. I sent her a message but she didn't get it.
Am I bad by not letting her in? Her place is 8 mins walk from mine but I just couldn't stand waiting for her being so late all the time. She doesn't even stay to talk long in the morning, she just eats breakfast (yesterday) and then just goes off back to her place to just use the net etc and doesn't go out of her room until the afternoon! I am not her hotel service but on the other hadn I feel bad...suggestions of what I should do? Opinions?
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