Does an emotionally abusive person feel a need to find closure at the end of a r
March 17, 2007 8:40am CST
If you are looking for closure from the abuser, it cannot be expected. Better to resolve to forgive the behavior and move on with your life. I am not saying to forget the behavior and go back, but you can forgive and not let the bitterness of the injustice touch your new life. Life is short--it is much better to do self enriching things than to remain in the past. I took a Divorce Recovery class run by the Catholic Church, which was a weekend. There were several small and large group activities that gave me peace.