Do you FAKE it?
By kbkbooks
@kbkbooks (7022)
Canada
March 17, 2007 2:16pm CST
The truth be told, I faked IT only a few times that I can remember, and that was just to get it over with because for whatever reason I wasn't having a good time. Generally, I enjoy the act of intimacy completely and I almost always "finish" so to speak before and AFTER my husband. I'm not boasting, just being honest about the fact that I like it. The fact is I get just as much pleasure out of making sure he finishes satisfactorily as I do for getting there myself.
The way I see it, the only one I cheat by faking is myself. I don't believe my partner knows the difference anyway. There are men who would know, but not always mine.
5 responses
@healer (1779)
• India
17 Mar 07
It depends, on my mood at times I fake but its rare. I have a very aggressive partner so don't have to fake. We are very open in this case so there is no need to hide or fake anything. Its countable the number of times i faked, but i don't like doing it.
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@ironstruck (2298)
• Canada
17 Mar 07
I don't ever remember faking it.
Maybe it is a woman thing.
Anyway, when it gets to that point in any relationship, there is obviously a problem somewhere and things will most likely continue on a downward slide.
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@whiteheather39 (24403)
• United States
17 Mar 07
I have faked it a few times in my life but it was always if a I had a new partner and he was a lousy lover then I just wanted to get it over with. There was never a second time with them and it was never with either of my husbands.
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@cassidy22 (2974)
• United States
19 Mar 07
I have faked it in the past, for the same reason, just to get it overwith. Now that I am married, I don't fake it. That's just not fair. But if it isn't going to happen for me, I just tell him so. There's nothing wrong with being honest about the fact that it might not work for you. It happens, and I'd rather him know the truth, than ever lie to him.
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